How did the Wives come up with "Use Your Words" and do they follow their own advice? Do the Wives still play on the second date? Does Kat still use her Bedazzler before each theme party? What other stories and advice from Season 1 is still true and what has changed? In this episode, Ams and Kat reflect on Season 1: the good, the bad and the silly. The Wives developed the idea of the podcast while in COVID lockdown, thinking if they can't play, why not talk about it in front of a microphone! They discuss how their play style has changed over time and discuss the definition of a demisexual and demisexuality. They also share behind the scenes details on the recording and production process of the podcast. Now is a great time to re-listen to Season 1 while you wait for Season 4 to launch. Links to episodes from Season 1: 2HotWives Use Their Words 2HotWives Hit the Dating Scene 2HotWives Get to Play All About Erotica! (aka: The Wives Turbo Charge Their Sex Drive and Level Up Their Fantasies Through Sexy Stories) Impact Play (aka: This will only hurt a little bit) Triggers (aka: When Rough Sex Triggers Bad Feels) Sexy Dress Up Role Play the 2HotWives Way

How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework? Tune in to find out. But first, check out this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Winter Berry Smash. Thanks to a listener tip, Kat found a tincture that uses nano-technology for quicker absorbtion and a faster experience. Then, Kat brings it home with her Hot Tale: a threesome with the Wives and Mr. Kat. Is he the luckiest man on the planet? You decide. Then, the Wives took a field trip to Nicole Marie's Boudoir Photography Studio in Easton, Maryland. Building on their experience taking boudior shots at Desire Resort in Mexico, the Wives came prepared with a Pinterest board, lots of wardrobe changes, and a bunch of beauty tips before they even get to the studio. They got special hair and makeup treatment and had a four-hour photo session. Things got suprisingly naked! As a bonus, the Wives got to visit their friend Adrienne from Midlife Craving Podcast. Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on ways to have a fantastic boudoir photography experience. Mentioned in this Episode: https://allebachphotography.com/ https://www.botanyfarms.com/products/nano-delta-9-microdose-gummies

Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym. This bonus episode was inspired by a number of listener questions that the Wives have received, where listeners have shared their concerns and insecurities about looks in the lifestyle. So, do you need to be hot? The answer is not simple. On the one hand, lifestyle dating is a lot like vanilla dating, and looks are a big part of attraction. So, yes, looks play into success in the lifestyle and improving your looks can improve your chance of success. But on the other hand, people of all shapes, sizes and ages participate in the lifestyle, so no matter where you fall on that spectrum, there is a good chance that you can meet people and make a connection. Also, attraction involves more than looks: confidence, intelligence, and romantic mental and emotional connections are an important part of attraction for many people, including sapiosexuals, polysexuals, and demisexuals. To get more advice on the issue of aesthetics, fitness and wellness in the lifestyle, the Wives talk with their good friend: Coach April from Naughty Gym. Referenced in this Episode: Be Better and Being Bad Don't You Want Me Baby Desire - Riviera Maya About April: Coach April is a co-creator, with her husband Scott, of Naughty Gym, an online fitness and coaching platform tailored to the sex-positive community. April, a highly accomplished fitness and nutrition coach, has excelled in various fitness disciplines, such as competitive running, figure competitions, CrossFit, and Powerlifting. With a wealth of experience, she has guided thousands of athletes with diverse goals and fitness backgrounds, earning recognition as an expert in empowering women to feel confident in their bodies and motivating them to achieve their fitness aspirations.

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography. Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography that captures individuals in a tasteful and empowering way, often in lingerie or semi-clothed, celebrating their unique beauty and sensuality. Boudoir photography can be a powerful tool for promoting self-love, body positivity, and empowerment. It challenges beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their uniqueness. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Pumpkin Spice (or, if you are looking for a little extra spice, add Bourbon). Mix one up while listening to this episode's hot tale: Ams never thought she would play on a show bed, but at a recent house party, she decides to hop on with a playful partner and a sexy voyeur. Never say never! Next, the Wives describe their past experiences with boudoir photography, including professional pictures taken at Desire, plus some DIY photo shoots at home. To get an expert's opinion, the Wives talk with photographer Nicole Marie, owner of Nicole Marie Boudoir. Finally, the Wives decide to book in for a boudoir photo session as their sexy homework. Nicole Marie is a boudoir and portrait photographer located in Easton, Maryland. She is a lifelong hobbyist photographer, professional photographer for 15 years and boudoir specialist for 9 years. Her passion is providing a luxury experience and empowering imagery for women from all walks of life. WEBSITE | FACEBOOK| INSTAGRAM More About Boudoir Photography What is a typical boudoir session like? A boudoir session involves grooming, wardrobe selection and usually hair and make up. A positive mindset is important. It's about feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. Who Should Consider Boudoir Photography? Boudoir photography is for anyone seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes individuals of all backgrounds and body types. How Does a Session Usually Go? A typical boudoir session includes a consultation with the photographer, hair and make up, followed by the photoshoot. The photographer creates a comfortable environment, guiding the subject through poses that highlight their best features. Who Should Have Boudoir Photos Done? Boudoir photography is for any women seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes women of all backgrounds and body types. How Is It Beneficial for Women's Empowerment? Boudoir photography empowers women by promoting self-confidence, challenging societal beauty norms, and fostering self-esteem. It allows women to see themselves in a new, positive light, which can have a profound impact on their self-esteem and well-being. Resource Notes: https://www.imaginated.com/blog/what-is-boudoir-photography/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boudoir_photography https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmE8Uqx8gCE#:~:text=Learn%20how%20to%20take%20your%20own%20amazing,self%20portraits%20from%20me%20on%20Patreon%20at: for taking boudoir self-portraits https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua-hOH-u_bA&t=0s composition for at home boudoir https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzpQnm7ddPM diy boudoir

How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn? How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes? Tune in to find out. A Unicorn is a single woman in the lifestyle. She may enjoy meeting and playing with other couples (i.e. - a Unicorn Threesome) or she may engage in all sorts of social and sexual activities with other people in the lifestyle. Don't fence her in! Even though Kat and Ams are not single women, they are both curious to explore the dynamic of a Unicorn Threesome and wanted to experience what it is like to be the special guest star to a couple. In Unicorn Threesomes Part One (https://2hotwives.com/unicorn-threesomes-aka-come-and-knock-on-our-door/), they set themselves sexy homework: Kat decides to go to a sex club without Mr. Kat to see what that would be like, and Ams is going to ask some of her lifestyle couple friends if they would like to have a threesome. In this episode, they report back on their sexy homework. But first, mix up this episode's Canna-Cocktail, the Autumn Bliss: mix honey simple syrup, cranberry juice, lime and ginger beer, then add your favorite cannabis tincture. Make sure it is alcohol based and not oil based so that it mixes into the drink better. And, if you prefer adding a spirit, add Gin instead. While sipping on your canna-cocktail, listen to Kat share her hot tale of a sexy encounter on the Bliss cruise. Kat doesn't usually play on the first date, and never in a public setting. But, it turns out that a sexy Irish accent is all that she needs to break all of the rules. If you are curious about what the playrooms are like on the Bliss cruise, this hot tale is for you. Next, Ams and Kat recount their sexy homework on Unicorn Threesomes. Can Ams line up a threesome with friends? Does Kat make it to the sex club? Listen in for the download. Mentioned in this episode: ForPlay Films: https://forplayfilms.com/ (Video: Menage a Tois, directed by Inka Winter)

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Unicorn Threesomes. Unicorns, you say? But unicorns are single women in the lifestyle and the 2HotWives are…wives! Well, even though Ams and Kat are not unicorns, they can still be “guest stars” in a threesome. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Apple Pom Spritz! All you need is some apple cider, pomegranate syrup, and a little cannabis tincture! Mix one up while listening to Ams share her sexy experience landing a hot, bi bro. And wait, there are pictures involved?!? Next, the Wives explore what it means to have a Unicorn Threesome. Unicorn threesomes are just any old threesome, it’s a chance to be welcomed as the cherished “third” in a couple’s fantasy. While not every woman can be a unicorn, they can be the special guest in a threesome! Why is it interesting to explore? Well, apart from being a fantasy for many women, it’s an opportunity for partnered women to explore their sexuality without their primary partners and to be treated as a special guest in a couple’s most intimate space. But unicorn threesomes also pose some challenges. If you are a partnered woman, you may have trouble communicating your wants and boundaries alone. You may even have safety concerns. To learn more, the Wives talk with YouTuber, Toronto Unicorn about the dos and don’ts of exploring the lifestyle as a single woman. Finally, the Wives decide on their sexy homework: Kat plans to go to a sex club with other ladies, while Ams looks for opportunities to invite herself into a couple’s bedroom. ABOUT TORONTO UNICORN: TorontoUnicorn pulls back the curtain of secrecy on the swinger lifestyle, normally underground, for those curious to find their way to this sex positive lifestyle for themselves. Her mission is to “take the scary out of swinging and sex clubs” and invite sex positive people to observe the swinging world through her lifestyle vlogs and experiences. Learn more at https://torontounicorn.com/

Did the 2HotWives break up? Did they get divorced? Maybe they set sail on the Bliss cruise and never returned??? The Wives are back to bring you an update on what's been happening in their lives since they last got in front of the microphone and to let you know that Season 4 will start on October 4th. The Wives are excited to share new hot tales and sexy advice on swinging, polyamory and kink.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you. Is the reality of rape play as hot as the fantasy? Time to check in with the Wives on their homework! Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar? Did you grow up reading “bodice ripper” romance novels and want to play out the scenes that you read? Do you sometimes hope your trusted partner will take what he (or she) wants, no matter how hard you protest or struggle? If yes, then you might be into Consensual Non-Consent. In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with CNC. But first, check out this episode's cocktail, the Apple Bomb (be careful, this drink is deceptively strong!), while Kat shares her Hot Tale. After exploring intense CNC experiences, Kat and Mr. Kat enjoy a sweet and slippery night with LOTS of Coconut Oil! Then, the Wives share their sexy homework on Consensual Non-Consent. Ams and Mr. Ams tries a "midnight intruder" scene, with mixed results, but has better luck with dirty talk and impromptu forced pleasure play. Kat and Mr. Kat, in the meantime, plan an elaborate punishment and forced exhibitionism scene in a high end hotel, including a surprise visit from a stranger! Finally, it’s Just the Tips if you want to rape play with a trusted partner. A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. FOR MORE INFORMATION: https://sexwithemily.com/consensual-non-consent/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7vyk4/consensual-non-consent-meaning https://www.reddit.com/r/CNC_Connect/ https://domsubliving.com/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent/ https://badgirlsbible.com/cnc-kink-consensual-non-consent https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-consensual-non-consent/

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you. Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar? Did you grow up reading "bodice ripper" romance novels and want to play out the scenes that you read? Do you sometimes hope your trusted partner will take what he (or she) wants, no matter how hard you protest or struggle? If yes, then you might be into Consensual Non-Consent. In this episode, the Wives discussed what CNC is and why so many women fantasize about it. They also get excellent advice from tenured professor and relationship coach, Dr. Tara. But first, it's time for Fall, bitches! Whip up our latest cocktail, the Autumn Sangria while listening to Ams' Hot Tale - after some hot vacation sex with Mr. Kat, Ams gets in trouble with Mr. Ams and he has naughty punishment in store. If you love power play and have a thing for punishment kink, this Hot Tale is for you! Then, the Wives discuss their current knowledge past experiences with CNC. Consensual non-consent, otherwise known as CNC, rape fantasy or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending to engage in forced, coerced or non-consensual sex. CNC is not one-size fits all. It’s not even just rape play. CNC includes: Rape Fantasy – a person is forced to perform sexual acts Somnophilia – sexual acts while one person is asleep Kidnapping Fantasy – someone is abducted and/or held against their will Blackmail Fantasy – the “victim” must do as the blackmailer demands to avoid unpleasant circumstances Selling Fantasy – a person is sold for sexual or manual labor against their will Hypnosis – A person is hypnotized and used for erotic purposes As with all the kinks we explore, consent is the key difference between a healthy exploration of sex and a crime. Also, as with most of the kinks we explore on 2HW, there is no one right way to do this. The Wives deconstruct the components of this type of play and explore each element so that, for any woman who is interested in this kink and wants to explore, she can take what she wants and leave what she doesn’t want. Because of the sensitive nature of this kink, this episode focuses on our mission of exploring in a safe, female-identifying only space. If you are a male listener and this turns you on, you might be shit-outa-luck if you don’t have an enthusiastically interested partner. We highly recommend that you don’t push an agenda for this kink. Your partner is either enthusiastically interested or not. But for women who are interested in exploring CNC, hopefully by the end of this episode, you feel a little less alone in your interest, a little more normal, and a little more equipped to explore it in a safe way. Next, the Wives chat with Dr. Tara, professor and host of the LuvBites podcast on how to explore CNC in a safe, sane and consensual way. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework and discuss how to set this up with their potentially reluctant husbands. A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton (recieved her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She's also the Relationship Tech consultant for Couply and Scratch Adventure mobile apps.

Time to check in with the Wives on their Exhibitionism homework! Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person gets turned on by being naked or having sex while someone watches. Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, enthusiastically consent to the experience, and that’s the kink this episode focuses on. But first, check out this episode's cocktail, the Cucumber Gin Martini (classy!) while Kat doubles-down on exhibitionism with her favorite single guy. Then, the Wives share their sexy homework on exhibitionism. Ams brings her sexy persona to a very public place when her and 25 of her closest friends enjoy a little cosplay at an outdoor pop up roller rink. She also plays up exhibitionism closer to home with Mr. Ams and a mirror. Kat takes exhibitionism up a notch with a sexy vacation to Austin and a reunion with lifestyle friends. Finally, it’s Just the Tips if you want to play with exhibitionism on your own, or with friends! A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.

Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others. Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on. But first, if you are looking for a light, end-of-summer cocktail, look no further than the Cucumber Lemonade. Mix one up while listening to Ams' Hot Tale - Ams reconnect with Brandon on a lifestyle couples date and experiences the Jedi Mind F**k. Then, the Wives discuss their past experiences and interests in exhibitionism. Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others. Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on. There are many reasons people enjoy exhibitionism. Some people enjoy breaking with the convention that sex happens in private. Participating, or even thinking about, taboo sexual behavior can be very hot and can even cause a physical rush of adrenaline or genital arousal. For others, "showing off" sexually to others is a way to bolster self-esteem. When watched by an enthusiastic voyeur, exhibitionism can result in tons of admiration and positive feedback. And when a woman is how beautiful and sexy they look when naked or provocatively dressed (or when engaging in sex) that positive feedback can lead to more confidence and positive body image. And if you feel better about your body, you probably will want to have more sex! Women might also explore exhibitionism as a safer way to connect with more than her primary partner. Having someone watch you have sex can be a form of communication and connection that can be a real turn on: watching a voyeur become aroused, participating in non-verbal communication (such as a wink or blowing a kiss) are ways to connect with a non-participating partner that can add a sexy spin on parallel play. Finally, exhibitionism on a lesser scale can be an empowering way to remind the world that you exist as a sexual being. For women of-a-certain-age, especially those that are mothers, society sends us messages that we are no longer sexual beings. Don't believe me, check Amy Schumer's brilliant skit: Last F**kable Day Really, for any woman who doesn't meet the very narrow definition of sexual beauty, exhibitionism in the form of provocative dressing can be a way to recall your sexuality, encourage healthy body image and feel sexually empowered. The Wives share their past experiences with exhibitionism (spoiler alert: Ams and Kat have sex in front of people all the time, but it isn't always a turn on). Next, the Wives get sage advice from Dr. Carol Queen on how to explore exhibitionism if you are experiencing shyness, a reluctant partner or body image issues. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework to explore ways to get turned on when other people are watching. A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. Dr. Carol Queen is staff sexologist and Company Historian at Good Vibrations, the woman-founded sex shop, where she has worked since 1990. A noted cultural sexologist whose work has been widely published, she's written or edited several books, including Exhibitionism for the Shy; The Leather Daddy & the Femme; and The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone (lead author, with Shar Rednour). She has been speaking publicly about sexuality for 45 years and frequently speaks to the media as well as college, conference, and other audiences. She debated the question of promiscuity ("virtue or vice?") at the Oxford Union. With Dr. Robert Morgan Lawrence, Queen co-founded the Center for Sex & Culture [IG @centersexculture] in San Francisco.

Time to check in with the Wives on their sexy homework from the book, Come as You Are, and the companion Workbook. Author Emily Nagoski states that everyone’s sexuality is unique and normal. That’s a wonderful and liberating message, but how can a woman learn about her unique sexual temperament from a book? It’s time to dig a little deeper and pull out the workbook for sexy homework! But first, if you looking for a cocktail that won’t weigh you down in these dog days of summer, check out the Grapefruit Spritzer while listening to Kat recount 22 straight days of morning sex with Mr. Kat (…jealous much?!?!) Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with Come as You Are and the companion Workbook. Drop that baggage, girl! Most women bring a lot of “baggage” in the bedroom, much of which is based on cultural messages around sex. Using the workbook, Ams and Kat explore how idealized versions of the “pure” “healthy” and “high performance” woman make real women feel inadequate and self-critical. Time to Start a Sex Binder. Do you plan for sex? Why not?!?! We plan for the things in life that are important to us, so why don’t we plan more for sex? Ams uses the workbook to identify the “perfect context” for sex and better ways that her and Mr. Ams can initiate. Let that Shit Go. Is stress keeping you from an amazing sex life? Kat confesses that chronic stress has been a major “brake” in her life over the past two years, and references Emily’s wisdom from CAUA as well as Emily and Amelia Nagoski’s book, Burnout, to complete the stress cycle. Finally, it’s Just the Tips for Come As You Are and the companion Workbook A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. Check out our Podcasts and Articles Featuring Books about Sex. Part 1 for Come As You Are including our interview with Emily Nagoski! The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay (Part 1 and Part 2) including our interview with authors Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA Book Review: Come As You Are Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay .

Are you ready to unlock the mysteries of female sexuality? Come As You Are is a must-read for all vulva-owners and the partners who want to please them. In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure. But before we dive into the details, mix yourself up this episode's Cocktail - the Blood Orange Mule, while Ams recounts a ridiculous attempt to buy THC-infused lube in California Then, the Wives FAN-GIRL over their favorite author, Emily Nagoski, and her award-winning book, Come As You Are. Based on their initial read, the Wives learned the nitty gritty of female anatomy (how male parts and female parts are analogs of each other!), the Dual Control Model (with the notorious sexual "accelerators" and "brakes"), the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and how to get all parts of your mind and body moving in one direction, for absolutely mind-blowing pleasure. Next, the Wives go straight to the source, interviewing the incomparable Emily Nagoski, on Come As You Are as well as her newest project, which focuses on staying connected in a long term relationship. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: time to check out Come As You Are, the Workbook. If you find female sexuality confusing and even frustrating, this book is a game-changer. A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.

Get ready for the hottest homework of this season! In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with Bondage. But first, if summer shenanigans are making you feel run down, check out this episode's cocktail: the Bourbon Elixir. And trust us, you will want a drink in hand when you listen to Kat's hot tale, steamy foreplay with not one, not two, BUT THREE men. Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with bondage, including a sexy foursome, Dom/sub play and the kink that cannot be named (...pssst, between you and I, it's a GANG BANG!!!) Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore bondage and restraint play. Four popular types of restraints are: rope, binders, bondage tape and shackles. Shackles/Cuffs– a great place to start. Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints. They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized. Rope– is super versatile, but a little tricky to use. The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it’s softer on skin. It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play. Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently. Binders- Not for Bondage newbies. The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer’s arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room). Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own. Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty. Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself. Not skin or hair Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone’s hands, legs or almost any body part. Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind. Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape. To get the low-down on all things Bondage, listen to Part 1 where the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving BDSM. A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT BONDAGE Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2) And our BSDM Articles: Five Myths about Impact Play Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You Essential Items for a Home Dungeon. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE UNDER THE BED RESTRAINTS EVERYTHING BONDAGE KIT SHIBARI ROPE HITACHI WAND MASSAGE TABLE EYE SHADES This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something we may earn a commission. Thanks

Bondage: what was once considered a taboo, dangerous kink is now a commonplace sex act that you can find in many a suburban bedroom. But is restraint play for you? Tune in to find out. Bondage, or restraint play, is a common sexual fantasy, but how can you safely make it into a very hot reality? In this episode, the Wives discuss what bondage is (including some sexy past experiences), who restraint play is for, and how to safely play with different forms of restraints. But first, cool off with a Summer Brazilian (no waxing necessary) while Ams shares her Hot Tale: a fantasy threesome with Peloton instructor Denis Morton. Spoiler-alert - Denis wasn't actually involved, but sometimes a little fantasy goes a long way in the bedroom (and the basement). Then, the Wives define and explore some bondage basics. Bondage is a form of kinky sex play that involves tying up, pinning down, or otherwise restraining a partner. It can be combined with other forms of BDSM play, such as impact play or orgasm control, or just used as a way to spice up an otherwise vanilla sexual experience. Bondage was once considered very taboo and even a little dangerous: something that only Kinksters do in the privacy of their local sex dungeon. But if you check out the nightstand drawer of many a suburban mom, you just might find a blindfold and some cuffs. Bondage has become a much more mainstream sexual activity (who didn't read Fifty Shades of Grey?), and it's actually quite accessible to the curious couple. Four popular types of restraints are: rope, binders, bondage tape and shackles. Shackles/Cuffs- a great place to start. Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints. They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized. Rope- is super versatile, but a little tricky to use. The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it’s softer on skin. It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play. Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently. Binders- Not for Bondage newbies. The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer’s arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room). Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own. Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty. Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself. Not skin or hair Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone’s hands, legs or almost any body part. Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind. Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape. To get the low-down on all things Bondage, the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving BDSM. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Ams wants to be tied to the bed, spread eagle-style, while Mr. Ams applies some delicious torture. While Kat wants to take it up a notch with three sexy gentlemen (wait, isn't that called a gang bang???) A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. Want to learn more about BDSM? Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2) And our BSDM Articles: Five Myths about Impact Play Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You Essential Items for a Home Dungeon.

Were the Wives able to tap into some sexy pole dancing energy? Tune into Part 2 to find out! In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen! But first, the temps are up, so the drinks get nice and cold: the Strawberry Rum Slushie requires some freeze time so make it now and then tune into this episode’s Hot Tale: Kat finally gets to play with the one that got away at the Dirty Disney party. Then, the Wives ice their bruises while recapping their Intro to Pole sessions. Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore pole dancing. Pole dancing dates back to the 12th century in India and was originally practiced by mostly men, not women. It migrated over to the U.S. when exotic dancers from Egypt would perform as part of the traveling circus. The sexual aspect of it was introduced when dancers would try to entice viewers to come see their shows by dancing erotically. It actually wasn’t until the 1980s that pole dancing became synonymous with bars and strip clubs. Pole Dancing combines dance and acrobatics centered on a vertical pole. This performance art form takes place not only in strip clubs as erotic dance, but also as a mainstream form of fitness. Amateur and professional pole dancing competitions are held in countries around the world. Pole dance requires significant muscular endurance and coordination, as well as sensuality. Today, pole performances by exotic dancers range from basic spins and striptease in more intimate clubs to athletic moves such as climbs, flips and body inversions. Pole Dancing is mostly about upper body and core strength and proper instruction and training is necessary to prevent injuries. Since the mid-2000s, promoters of pole dance fitness competitions have tried to change peoples’ perception of pole dance to include pole fitness as a non-sexual form of dance and acrobatics and are trying to move pole into the Olympics as pole sports. Recognized schools and qualifications are now commonplace. Pole dancing enthusiasts are of all ages, it’s never too late to get started. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The Monogamish Marriage Average Swingers Casual Swingers Black and Kinky Podcast Swinger University 4ourPlay Podcast Bed Hoppers Life of Spice Coqueta Caliente TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including: Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022 Bliss Cruise: November 2022 Keep checking back for new events.

In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen! But first, mix up this episode's sweet and simple cocktail, the Blackberry Lemonade, while Ams recounts some hot times on the Bliss Cruise. Next, the Wives explore the history and benefits of pole dancing. Pole dancing dates back to the 12th century in India and was originally practiced by mostly men, not women. It migrated over to the U.S. when exotic dancers from Egypt would perform as part of the traveling circus. The sexual aspect of it was introduced when dancers would try to entice viewers to come see their shows by dancing erotically. It actually wasn’t until the 1980s that pole dancing became synonymous with bars and strip clubs. Pole Dancing combines dance and acrobatics centered on a vertical pole. This performance art form takes place not only in strip clubs as erotic dance, but also as a mainstream form of fitness. Amateur and professional pole dancing competitions are held in countries around the world. Pole dance requires significant muscular endurance and coordination, as well as sensuality. Today, pole performances by exotic dancers range from basic spins and striptease in more intimate clubs to athletic moves such as climbs, flips and body inversions. Pole Dancing is mostly about upper body and core strength and proper instruction and training is necessary to prevent injuries. Since the mid-2000s, promoters of pole dance fitness competitions have tried to change peoples' perception of pole dance to include pole fitness as a non-sexual form of dance and acrobatics and are trying to move pole into the Olympics as pole sports. Recognized schools and qualifications are now commonplace. Pole dancing enthusiasts are of all ages, it's never too late to get started. For a ton of inspiration, the Wives interview 11-time world champion pole artist, Greta Pontarelli on what it was like to take up the art in her sixties and how she is still going strong into her seventies. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: off to the studio for some pole dancing 101. Greta Pontarelli started with pole arts at age 59 and began competing by the time she turned 61. Greta competes all over the world and is an 11X World Pole Art Masters Champion (2013-2021). She has been on the covers of many international magazines and has also competed on the TV show "American Ninja Warrior" twice. At 71, she continues to compete and offer classes and workshops and is the artistic director at Arial Zen. “I embrace art forms that allow our visionary gifts to flourish and for me, pole art fits the bill. It is an eclectic display of contemporary stage art that celebrates our unique artistry. It honors expressiveness and originality which allows fresh ideas to emerge and challenge us to become the best that we can become.” A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode! You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.

Can the 2HotWives walk that middle path between polyamory and swinging? Tune in to Swolly Part 2 to find out. First, start with the episode’s cocktail, the Blackberry Peach Fizz while Kat updates us on her sexy play time with a single guy. If you dig a little upscale restraint play, this hot tale is for you. Then, the Wives go deep on their journey toward Swolly. Swolly is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamory extramarital relationships. Both Ams and Kat started their open marriage journey as "social swingers" with their husbands: they were looking for casual sexual experiences with other couples who were (or could be) friends, but emotionally intimate connections were off the table. As time went on, a deeper connection developed between the Wives and their husbands, which led to a lot of excitement, but also a lot of drama. In this episode, the Wives discuss that struggle openly to each other for the first time. Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring independent dating and opening up to "the feels". Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore swolly. Want to learn more about Polyamory? Check out our interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, author of The Polyamorists Next Door. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The Monogamish Marriage We Gotta Thing TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including: Podcast a Palooza: June 2022 Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022 Bliss Cruise: November 2022

If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly! Swolly is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamorous relationships. Are you Swolly? Tune in to find out. But first, mix up a Tennessee Peach, this episode's sweet and sophisticated cocktail while Ams fan girls over Bridgerton and shares her hot tale of a total mindfuck with a smart and sexy new partner. Next, the Wives explore the difference between swinging and polyamory, including this middle ground of Swolly. Swolly is a person who identifies as both a swinger and a member of the polyamorous community in that they have multiple relationships simultaneously and also enjoy recreational sex. The term is a portmanteau of the words swinger and polyamorous. Ken Haslam of the Kinsey Institute originally coined the term Swolly. Here are some key components to Swolly: The foundation is a marriage/committed couple. That relationship takes precedence over all other polysexual and polyamorous relationships The couple is open to polysexual relationship and may seek out casual sexual encounters or sex with "friends" that don't involve deep connections. The couple is also open to polyamorous relationships that involve both physical and emotional intimacy. The level of intimacy can vary between relationships (some relationships are purely polysexual, polysexual with friendship, or polyamorous). Polysexual relationships are less complicated and involve less commitment. You have a responsibility to make sure your partner is well taken care of during a sexual encounter (consent, pleasure, aftercare, the basic “camp-fire rule”), but you don’t have responsibility toward that person outside of the sexual encounter. You might be friendly, you might be friends, that aspect might ebb and flow, but you don’t have a responsibility to build on anything outside of the bedroom. In Polyamorous relationships, you agree to share emotional intimacy, which means that you are committing to be an emotional support for this partner. These relationships can be more meaningful and rewarding, but also a lot of work. To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview Dr. Elisabeth "Eli", Sheff, expert witness, researcher, educator & relationship coach with expertise in polyamorous culture. Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: The Wives and the Misters are going to explore more emotionally intimate relationships with some of their swinger friends, including solo dates and lots of talk about "feelings". Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE We Gotta Thing Podcast Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay Types of Non-Monogamy Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including: Podcast a Palooza: June 2022 Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022 Bliss Cruise: November 2022 Keep checking back for new events. WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT POLYAMORY? Check out these articles and references: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24402980-designer-relationships https://affirmativecouch.com/polyamorous-relation

Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting? Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out. First, start with a pitcher of the episode’s cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria. We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome. Then, the Wives share the ups and downs of their sexy homework: Ams takes the advice of sexpert Lola Jean and starts with masturbation, while Kat and Mr. Kat focus on lots of g-spot foreplay. Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore squirting, either solo or with a partner. Did we wet your appetite for sexual exploration? Check out www.2hotwives.com for articles, advice, drink recipes and more. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Casual Toys – Womanizer Duo Wanderlust Swinger Podcast TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including: Podcast a Palooza: June 2022 Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022 Bliss Cruise: November 2022 Keep checking back for new events. WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SQUIRTING? Check out these articles and references if you are curious about female ejaculation. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/ https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878 https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709 https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/ https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/