Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference?    Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thoughts and opinions with a little bit of p*rn talk on the side, sexual preferences, and the do’s and don’ts of casual and long-term dating. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/pets TUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTING ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 02:50 I’m like a Kardashan but I wasn’t in the front line 04:36 What do people don’t know most about you? 06:30 Let’s do Rapid Fire Questions 14:05 Why can’t we tickle ourselves? 15:51 Where is the cl*toris? 18:37 What should girls do when you’re licking her down there? 19:40 Do you get things faster with *9? 21:18 You're on a deserted island, what will you bring? 23:24 When you go back in time… 23:59 Is it safer to drink your urine or saliva? 25:35 What comes first: cereal or milk? 28:14 She’s a 10 but… 52:26 Suspicion - the biggest turn offs for guys 53:05 Is physical attraction everything? 54:38 What’s your biggest icks? 56:25 What is the most obvious sign that he likes you?  01:01:46 Biggest red flags to look out for 01:06:57 Porn is like a fantasy land  01:09:43 What keeps you up at night? 01:10:37 Have you learned anything now that you’re thirty? Connect with Trevor on: https://www.youtube.com/c/TrevorWallace https://www.instagram.com/trevorwallace/ https://www.facebook.com/TrevorWallaceComedy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@trevorwallace https://trevorwallacecomedy.com/  https://www.youtube.com/@StiffSocks  Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/  https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER! Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures.     Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We got all sorts of fan stories you won’t get enough of. So tune in and laugh with us! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner episode, call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  CARE.COM - Visit www.care.com/pets TUSHY - Checkout www.hellotushy.com/ADULTING and use promo code: ADULTING ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/ What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 04:40 Story #1: We decided to have breakup s*x 25:04 Story #2: He was eating me and I farted! 30:56 Story #3: I didn’t wipe all the way and we we’re having a doggy Connect with Steven on: https://www.instagram.com/steevenz/ https://www.tiktok.com/@steevenzzz  Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating.    Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will eventually affect your body and your overall well-being. The duo encourages listeners to figure out their own ways of dating and relationships that work for them.    Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  TALKSPACE: www.talkspace.com/ADULTING What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:55 Would you give Dan Bazarian a bj? 04:01 Calm dudes have big d*ck energy 05:58 What happened to your arm? 10:19 When you’re a good people pleaser 16:32 No one cares for your internal struggles 19:00 Emotional pain leads to physical pain 21:50 What else people don’t know about you? 22:35 Happiness is also a passing emotion 25:14 Surprising things when you date a sober guy 27:06 What’s married life like? 31:00 When you don’t realize you’ve been ghosted 34:40 The dumbest thing you can laugh at now 41:01 Tips to dating  43:24 Guys who love licking you down there     Connect with Hannah on: https://hannahberner.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_berner https://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/ Berning in Hell Podcast Giggly Squad Podcast Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/  https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you? Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks. If you want to be featured on the next Benson Knows Best episode and call in to have a live conversation with Violetta, send a DM now! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 02:03 Exciting updates! 03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip 14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy? 18:39 We don’t have a label 22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes back Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.   Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTING PROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.com  SHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adulting  CARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/pets  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:55 I went to this event last night… 04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards 06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame? 07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x? 13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner? 15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning 23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction 26:07 How do you bring back attraction? 33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x 37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm 42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn? 46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental? 52:32 When should you discuss kinks? 54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child? 57:57 How necessary is your kink for you? 01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive 01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice 01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationships Connect with Todd on: https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/ https://www.facebook.com/yourdiagnonsense/ https://www.tiktok.com/@yourdiagnonsense https://www.toddsbaratz.com/ Your Diagnonsense Podcast Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/  https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER! This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!   Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  BABBEL - Visit www.babbel.com/ Promo Code: ADULTING PROVINCETOWN - Check out www.ptowntourism.com SHOPIFY - Visit www.shopify.com/adulting CARE.COM - Check out www.care.com/pets What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed 10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky 18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star 23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring 27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon 39:09 He booked another girl in the next room Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We’re finally done with the love month where we sat down with known personalities and influencers in the dating and relationship realm as they shared tips, guides, and signs to look out for with your next partner.   Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome model, content creator, businesswoman, and reality TV show Francesca Farago. Violetta and Francesca bares all by talking about Francesca’s truth and how she was portrayed as the ‘villain’, the conflicting relationships that stirred negative reactions from the viewers, and what really happened behind-the-scenes of the hit TV show Too Hot to Handle. More tea is about to spill to stay tuned to find out more! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:32 Are reality shows heavily edited? 02:27 On and off relationship 05:20 Mental health issues in reality shows 06:45 What are commonly asked questions? 09:17 Why was I lied to? 11:17 The secret big player on the show 16:24 Relationship with Dom 27:41 What’s one thing you wish you didn’t do on the show? 30:12 “I thought we were on better terms…” 32:25 I used to drink heavily 35:21 The Kissing Challenge 36:56 Too much honesty can be negative sometimes 40:31 What's up with Damian? 42:28 Watching you and your ex 45:12 It wasn’t just for me 51:47 Taking care of your mental health 54:37 Are you friends now? 59:46 “I’m actually really nice.” 01:01:03 What are you currently working on? Connect with Francesca on: Instagram YouTube TikTok Farago the Label Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best! This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public. Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from the radar of the public eye. She answers a few more questions about keeping your emotions in check and more tips on how to harmlessly flirt with a guy and get him getting interested in you. Interested to know more Hollywood secrets? Tune in and be the first to know!  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 05:17 Question #1: 8 best kept secrets in Hollywood 21:58 Unknown facts about me  29:31 Question #2: How do I not become a bitter person? 36:47 Question #3: How can you make a guy chase you?  Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love! Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxiety by cultivating self-love. Rebuilding self-confidence can be challenging but taking small steps such as practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating small accomplishments can help us regain a sense of empowerment and self-assurance. Listen in because it’s never too late to start loving yourself more! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTING TUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your order ZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:07 What was your original last name? 03:37 Self love before anything else 06:57 Physical manifestation of anxiety 11:15 We have to listen to others as well 13:46 Losing 100lbs 19:09 A woman’s body changes throughout her life 27:31 Body insecurities 31:51 Love is an action 34:03 Your body is majestic 39:40 S*xless pregnancy 44:54 There wasn’t a lot of thinking about ‘me’ 46:07 You can’t build the same house again 49:20 Your partner as your best friend 56:04 It’s okay to ask for help 01:00:02 Divorce is always on the table 01:02:17 The biggest lessons learned 01:05:19 Childhood dream 01:11:00 Learn to love yourself while loving someone else Connect with Sarah on: The Birds Papaya The Papaya Podcast Instagram Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3 Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating.  Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it will somehow ‘get better’ in the end. The other ended up getting ditched for another girl in the bar. Listen up as the girls pitch in their own stories of worst first dates and some pieces of advice on how not to end up with a bad date! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  LUME: Visit www.lumedeodorant.com and get 5% off of a Lume Starter Pack using the code: ADULTING TUSHY: Visit www.helotushy.com/ADULTING and get a 10% off of your order ZOCDOC: Check out www.zocdoc.com/adulting  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:24 Hoping for a better date until the end 06:37 One time I had a bad date… 11:28 We dated for 48 hours 14:56 He was a virgin 24:54 What it means when they say, “You’re so high maintenance?” 29:33 Sexual dancing with another girl 33:57 Do FaceTime before you date 44:54 Average boyfriend penis is for marriage 50:54 Stay away from s*x workers online Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner.   Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around growing in love instead of staying in love, the value of being consistent throughout the relationship which people don’t talk about a lot, how trust and open communication, despite sounding cliché, is the ultimate key to a lasting love! All these and of course making each other a priority works too! So listen in to find out more simple yet realistic love advice! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  HONEYLOVE: Visit www.honeylove.com and use code: ADULTING What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 02:09 The love story 05:43 Try to make it work 07:41 Those times we felt the most 09:20 What did she DM? 11:35 Feeling unsure  14:37 Building emotional connection 19:11 Feelings change 22:30 Making each other a priority 26:17 Growing in love 28:23 Trust and communication 35:24 Do you want a life partner? 38:11 Situationship  40:19 Meet and greet with family & friends 42:15 Grocery store rule 44:31 The biggest red flag 47:44 I like you, BUT… 52:25 Choose your partner everyday 56:17 Being cheated on 01:00:55 Be an old school lover   Connect with Nick on: Instagram YouTube TikTok The Viall Files Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 2 Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates where you call in with YOUR hilarious stories -  Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree sit down to listen to some of your horrible date stories. Specifically the ones that include a drunk and/or drugged story that ended up in a failed date and for some, an actual relationship. Listen as these two besties from high school give their best drunk perspectives while also catching up on their new techniques of ways that they masturbate. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 0:00 Intro 2:05 Bree got a Lexus in high school 7:20 Bree loves sex 11:20 Take a shot of 1942 11:49 Caller #1 17:22 Caller #2 20:08 Samantha from Sex and the City 23:52 First time I ever masturbated 25:23 Caller #3 26:40 Trip to Mexico 30:10 Caller #4 38:00 How to Virgos show love 42:00 Ending Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! In the second week of the LOVE month, we will focus on dating - when to know when you’ve found the right man for you. Today on Almost Adulting, Violet is once again joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger. There is no stopping the two from going deep into the dating game. They discuss how success can affect the relationship depending on who’s more successful, turning casual dates into serious relationships (that can potentially lead to engagement, and eventually marriage), how a man’s attitude is dependent on whether he’s found the ‘right’ girl for him, the ups and downs that comes with dating, and so much more!  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  BABBEL: Go to www.babbel.com/ADULTING PROVINCETOWN: Visit www.ptwontourism.com  SHOPIFY: Visit www.shopify.com/ADULTING  TALKSPACE: Go to www.talkspace.com code: ADULTING What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 04:03 Securing the ring 08:44 You own a home and you’re successful 13:57 Cheating 15:30 Casual to serious dating 24:27 Don’t live together if you’re not engaged 28:40 When he decides to marry you 31:44 The switch 34:54 Attachment style and love language 40:29 The man is consistent, the boy is not 45:36 They will be romantic for the right girl 49:40 Men bond through emotions and consistency 55:16 Not everyday is perfect 59:01 Sex magic 01:06:02 When you can’t see a future with someone 01:08:50 A pair and a spare 01:15:19 The motherly partner 01:19:06 When you know you’re the deal 01:21:07 A restart or a negotiation? 01:25:59 Tips to better dating life  Connect with Patti on: Instagram Twitter Books Millionaire's Club Matchmaker Fragrance Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER! This week we’re diving into our worst first dates ever because well…everyone has one. Join Violet as she listens and reacts to all of your most cringeworthy, hilarious, and unbelievable tales of dating disasters. From spending the night in the hospital to getting pegged with a pool ball, we've got it all. So grab a glass of wine, sit back, and be glad it wasn’t you who had to endure any of these disasters.  If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:29 He shattered glass and injured himself opening a window 06:43 I got a DUI 14:41 No offense to you, women are disgusting 21:01 He asked me to pay for dinner 25:10 Because I said no to sex, he messed up my birthday 31:12 The secret to his curly hair Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to the month of LOVE! This month we will be diving into everything relationships so you know what that means…the good, the bad, and the unavoidable ugly To kick off love month on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by human connection specialist and friend of the show, Mark Groves! Mark is the founder of Create The Love movement and is a self-described ‘emotional translator’. Together the two focus on the painful topic of why so many of us are not only consistently drawn to unavailable people, but spend so much time being caretakers and trying to ‘fix’ them. Violet and Mark then deep dive into the baggage many of us carry and explain how so many of us unknowingly exist in an emotionally dysregulated response state - which may explain an issue or two in your relationship. Besties, we’re kicking off love month strong with things you NEED to be aware of, but it’ll feel good in the end. Can’t have the good without weeding out the bad! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:04 Why are people emotionally unavailable? 04:03 Signs that tell you’re emotionally unavailable 09:58 Different people bring our different attachment styles 15:34 Dating is not black and white anymore 20:02 You have to learn discernment 22:53 Dating is a sorting process 26:20 Taking the caretaker role 30:04 Dysregulated response state  36:11 A regulated and secure person 38:19 You need to express your thoughts 42:00 You are the five people closest to you 43:00 Should you stay or leave a relationship? 46:02 Be the creator of your life  50:02 Venting out or seeking advice? Connect with Mark on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/ Twitter https://twitter.com/createthelove YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrov... Create the Lovehttps://createthelove.com/ Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s the last Tuesday of the month, so you know what that means! To close this month Violet gives us a special Benson Knows Best episode, featuring a Q&A session where she reads messages from you all and gives the life changing advice that we all need.   This week Violet channels her inner MUA influencer and finally lets everyone in on her skincare and hair routine. Next, Violet dives into the many questions you all sent in and does NOT hold back. From relationship struggles, to what he REALLY means when he sends you mixed signals, and even a special challenge Violet reveals at the end of the episode that she will be doing with you. That’s what Besties are for right? Don’t forget to send in your questions so you can be featured on the next Benson Knows Best and get some much needed advice from your big sis, Violet! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:37 What’s your skincare / makeup routine? 05:21 The mix signal is confusing 09:46 I had no idea he’s a divorcé 12:49 She’s 30 and she doesn’t have a job 20:01 Setting an intention or wanting something so bad  23:36 How do I date when I detest men? Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up! This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things we are unknowingly evading ourselves from. While both masculine and feminine energy are present and necessary in all people, tapping into one's feminine energy can help further receptivity, openness, and vulnerability. In this episode Violet will discuss the pros of unleashing the various types of femininity and how leaning into their presence can assist you throughout your life. By the way, this is not to be confused with old school gender roles, or doing things just to attract a partner, but rather tap into an intimate side that is already within you. Enjoy the journey, Besties. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  Zocdoc: https://www.zocdoc.com/ADULTING What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 04:14 We all have masculine and feminine energy 07:48 What you want is not what you attract 13:55 Be in your feminine divine energy 18:44 Your dark, seductive feminine energy 22:05 Your light, innocent feminine energy 25:43 Trusting the process of dating 26:08 Set standards and stick by them 29:43 They always see your worth Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER! This week is a continuation of CC: SUGAR BABIES, where Violet will be sitting and reacting to ALL of your risque (and risky) sugar baby endeavors. Sit back and relax because things are about to get a little crazy besties.  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  Zocdoc: https://www.zocdoc.com/ADULTING  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 02:18 What if you are this guy’s karma? 08:00 “Sir, I’m just trying to get paid!” 09:13 “I knew his daughter!” 15:07 Don’t recommend that your sugar daddy should go to therapy 21:16 “He liked the way my ass moved.” 23:23 “I’m not sleeping with them, period.”   Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there.  This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we likely fall for the wrong person, armed with a huge ego and a wounded inner child he never knew existed within him. That guy who gives you mixed signals and then leaves you hanging when they have their fun. While difficult people can be frustrating and draining, they also have the ability to help us become better versions of ourselves. And this is possible when we start to love ourselves a little more, see our own value, understand what we truly desire in life. Bestie, it’s finally time to drop that toxic relationship, friendship, or whatever it is. Do it NOW - you will only thank yourself later. Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  Babbel: http://www.babbel.com code: ADULTING What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 02:38 Why do we love difficult people? 05:07 When we feel the lack of spark 08:27 The reasons why we’re attracted to the wrong person 11:59 Guys with daddy issues 18:56 The second boyfriend: a toxic guy 25:39 I thought love had to be achieved 28:00 Daddy Issues 35:06 Start loving yourself Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today, due to popular demand, Violet starts the episode with the worst to easiest zodiac sign to date followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!! She dives into how to attract a PISCES, CANCER, & SCORPIO (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him. Make sure to subscribe to Almost Adulting so you never miss an episode again!! NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAY Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm  What to Listen For: 00:00 Introduction 01:34 What it’s like to date a Pisces/Cancer/Scorpio man 04:09 Worst to easiest zodiac sign to date 12:03 The Water Signs 13:34 The Pisces Man - the most anxious zodiac 24:41 The Cancer Man - the most emotional zodiac 33:04 The Scorpio Man - the deepest and most secretive zodiac Get more content on: @almostadulting on Instagram @violetbenson on Instagram @daddyissues_ on Instagram YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.