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Bad Gays

Lisa Miller


To close our season, the story of Lisa Miller, an American woman who gave birth to a child coparented with her partner Janet Jenkins, and then left Janet, became a self-proclaimed ex-lesbian, sued for single custody of their daughter, and when the courts decided against her, abducted their child and fled the country with the assistance of well-connected far-right pastors in 2009. Lisa and their daughter, Isabella, are still missing.

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If you have any information on the whereabouts of Lisa and/or Isabella, please contact the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.



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Episode 35

by Hosts: Huw Lemmey & Ben Miller