What is the bowl? Freestyling? What is a Salt Daddy? Find out in this episode! As Sugar Dating becomes more popular and the community grows, these terms begin to show up and solidify, while it can seem like a lot at first, it is helpful to become familiar with them to interact with others and ask questions within forums and communities. Episode starts at 4:47 Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

What is somatic coaching? What does it involve? Rachel Overvoll uses a holistic, somatic approach to sexual healing and explains the benefits of involving your body rather than strictly your mind. In this episode Ellie and Rachel talk about religious trauma and how difficult and long the process can be, but also how important and worth it the process is. Learn about what Rachel does, offers, and how to connect with her below: Connect with Rachel on IG: @rachelovervoll Visit her website to find her book, view her courses, and work with her one-on-one: rachelovervoll.com Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other expectations? YUMMY. Listen to this episode to find out what the top seven (7) sexual fantasies are, something we can know thanks to Justin Lehmiller, the author of Tell Me What You Want who spent two years studying fantasies. You're not only healthy for having sexual fantasies, but normal! It is actually abnormal to NOT fantasize about all sorts of dirty, dirty things. Enjoy, blossoms! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Holy bonkers, how did we get to episode FIFTY? Ellie and Andrew have an enlightening conversation all about first times and crazy experiences becoming sexual beings from religious and conservative upbringings. Sneaky woods sex, accidental anal, buying condoms, YouTube channels, and more! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ellie is back from...the dead? Not quite, but almost. This episode is spent discussing the beautiful act of aftercare with Andrew! What is aftercare? How do you do aftercare? Who SHOULD be doing it? All these things and more are talked about and discussed in episode 49 of Sugar Pussy. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

How do you finger? How do you eat a girl out? Should you use the alphabet method? So many questions. A woman's pleasure is a mystery, right? No! Ellie and Andrew both tell you tips and what you need to know about giving a woman pleasure in this episode of Sugar Pussy. Step by step, important considerations, why it is important to take seriously, and techniques to use on a clitoris or vagina to give the ultimate pleasure.  *NOTE* in this episode both Ellie and Andrew use binary terms when discussing pleasure but we want to note that this is often incorrect. Vulva owners are not always she/her and penis owners are not always he/him. Please forgive these assumptions made as recording these it can often become easy to slip into habit. Sugar Pussy is inclusive to all and we hope that regardless of this, you are able to enjoy and learn from our content. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Vulva, clitoris, vagina: basically a wonderland of pleasure and treasure right? But what about for non vulva owners and people who haven't explored a woman's body before? Or, maybe you have but you just kinda yolo'd it? How to touch a woman can be intimidating! This episode covers all of the foundations. What are you looking at? Labia? Clit? Vagina? Isn't the whole thing a vagina? Who knows. It actually isn't rocket science! This episode answers questions about what everything is, the four different kinds of hymen (actually super important!) and more! Next week is all about pleasure. How to touch a vulva. How to lick a vulva. How to put your finger in. All the good stuff! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ghosted. Getting yelled at. Chlamydia. Cocaine. Blood...so much blood. And more. The stories Ellie hasn't told yet are here and I hope you're ready because you can't sugar date for 7 years and not get a little messy. Should she be shouting these into the abyss that is the internet? Probably not. But here they are for all your listening joy.  Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what the porn industry is like today.  Read Sarah Chadwick's book The Sweetness of Venus: https://www.amazon.com/Sweetness-Venus-History-Clitoris/dp/1736298836 Listen to The Pros and Cons of Porn (Do We Know Things): https://www.doweknowthings.com/episodes/21-pros-and-cons-of-porn Listen to The Butterfly Effect (Jon Ronson): https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Butterfly-Effect-Podcast/B08DDD6299 Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG and Twitter: @its.ellie.rae, @its_ellierae Sources for this episode: “The History of Pornography: From The Paleolithic to Pornhub” https://medium.com/unusual-universe/the-history-of-pornography-from-the-paleolithic-to-pornhub-4123dbeef37e “The Evolution of Pornography” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202007/the-evolution-pornography “A brief and incredible history of porn” https://www.dailydot.com/irl/history-of-porn/ “How Has Pornography Changed In The Last 10 Years?” https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-has-porn-changed-in-the-last-10-years/ “The history of OnlyFans: how the controversial platform found success and changed online sex work” https://www.insider.com/what-is-onlyfans-banning-content-work-porn-ban-history-sex-2021-9 “Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It” https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn “THE UNETHICAL HISTORY OF 70’S PORN” https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-unethical-history-of-70s-porn “Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it?” https://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-21/ethical-porn-does-it-exist-and-where-do-you-find-it/8091266 “The definition of pornography” https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/etc/definition.html “Making Sense of Modern Pornography” https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/09/26/making-sense-of-modern-pornography And of course… https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_magazine https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_film https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography#History --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and being herself and pursuing passions as a model. Follow Paloma: @awaremoma Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Another look into the past to arm yourself against haters, understand the sex industry better, learn cool facts, and more! This week the history is all about seductive ways people have moved their bodies in dance throughout history. Ellie also tells about catching up with a Sugar Daddy she never thought she would see again and tells a story about going to Girls Night Out a few years ago. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. Sources for this episode: "The History of Stripping" https://www.medicalbag.com/home/features/grey-matter/the-history-of-stripping/ "A Brief History Of The Cancan, France's Famously Raunchy Dance" https://theculturetrip.com/europe/france/articles/a-brief-history-of-the-cancan-frances-famously-raunchy-dance/ "Origin of Stripping" https://vocal.media/filthy/origin-of-stripping "Stripped: A Look Inside the Life & History of Exotic Dancing" https://www.metapsychosis.com/stripped-a-look-inside-the-life-history-of-exotic-dancing/ "Male vs. Female Strippers: What Is The Difference?" https://www.exoticchicagostrippers.com/male-vs-female-strippers-whats-difference/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ellie describes exactly what she means by "pleasure body map" and why it is helpful to us humans. She also digresses with the worlds longest penis, erotic museums, and sugar daddy sponsored travel...but back to the important stuff: listen to her map her OWN body for the first time in this episode as an example for how you can do it. Follow along or listen and take notes so you can light up some candles and try it out for yourself. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ellie goes back in time, all the way back to 3000BC to be specific and goes through the timeline of Prostitution and all its ups and downs. From cutting women's noses off to sex boxes, things get interesting! Also, Ellie did what on their road trip? Find out all this in the first episode of season three! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sources for the episode: The History Of Prostitution in the World https://www.amsterdamredlightdistricttour.com/history-of-amsterdam/history-of-prostitution/ Historical Timeline; History of Prostitution from 2400 BC to the Present https://prostitution.procon.org/historical-timeline/ Beyond The Bedroom: The Surprising History Of Prostitution Around The World https://allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-prostitution America's Forgotten Mass Imprisonment of Women Believed to Be Sexually Immoral https://www.history.com/news/chamberlain-kahn-act-std-venereal-disease-imprisonment-women The Brutal History of Japan’s ‘Comfort Women' https://www.history.com/news/comfort-women-japan-military-brothels-korea --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Wow, what a season! It is so exciting to reach another milestone and celebrate with all things anal sex *gasp*. Tim comes through and not only gives amazing tips for pleasuring our butts but also shares a story that will make you a little less worried about any mishaps you could have exploring anal play... Season 3 is only a few weeks away and full of amazing content Ellie has planned, in the meantime, connect on IG: @its.ellie.rae and on Twitter: @its_ellierae and of course follow the show: @sugarpuspod! Follow Tim's podcast: @sexedwithtim Follow Tim: @gayslutclown Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ohhhhh HONEY. Ellie has a new bff and he is fabulous, for real. He was SO generous with his time not only did he talk for 60 minutes about coming out (his story, advice, and resources), entering the gay dating scene, sex and sexual expectations, AND his experience as an escort and sugar baby but he also gave Ellie a lesson in Anal...but that is for next week ;). This week: get to know him, fall in love with him, and probably shower him with money hoping he lets you be his new sugar daddy because his personality is as tight as his ass. OH YEAH. I WENT THERE. Please don't hate me, Tim, I couldn't help it. Also, happy bisexual visibility day, lovelies! Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ropes turn me on; tie me up Daddy! Shibari, Western Rope Bondage, Cuckolding, and Ellie's sugaring life all make an appearance in this weeks episode of Sugar Pussy. What is Shibari and where did it come from? Can I be tied up and not have to have sex? Is bondage good for you? What are the benefits of bondage and rope play? What is a rope bunny? SO MANY QUESTIONS. Think of this episode as a little, BDSM bondage/shibari 101. Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Older and wiser advice for the podcast? Ellie gets stories and advice and a great conversation from Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent. Why did they expand and create women's pleasure gels and products? Is male delay spray for men or women's pleasure? Has he ever been a Sugar Daddy (yep, she asks!) and his answer might surprise you! What does he think about the taboo around Sugar Dating? All this AND MORE in this episode of Sugar Pussy! Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

As promised, the obvious part 2 after episode 33! This one doesn't just explain how to work a cock, however, it also talks about how to survive having a gag reflex, something even Ellie deals with (so of course, it's personal). What is facefucking and how do you survive it? There are two ways to take and swallow cum-- what?! Tips and techniques for a blowjob are cumming for you in this episode so maybe be sure to wear headphones this week. P.S. Don't worry ladies and gentlemen, we will be discussing how to eat pussy VERY soon. Cock's don't get all the attention on this podcast ;) Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Only Fans is doing WHAT?! Wow, what dumbasses. Ellie theorizes where all the Only Fans creators are going to go with the announcement that no porn is allowed and sex workers and content creators are undercut so unfairly AGAIN. Also, what are some personality traits needed as a sugar baby? What are some tips to go into a Sugar Date with confidence for the first time? It can be super scary if you don't have the right mentality and thankfully Ellie has years of figuring out what that is. Help Afghanistan Women: https://womenforafghanwomen.org/afghanistan/ https://support.womenforwomen.org/donate/afghanistan-emergency-2x-match?src=HHUA21082A Follow Ellie on IG and Twitter: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @ sugarpuspod Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support

Ellie and Andrew discuss sadism and masochism; what they are, how they are practiced, how to enjoy these desires safely, what to look out for in a BDSM partner, and tips to a fun and safe scene. Why do people like watching their partner experience pain? Is it wrong to be a sadist? Is it wrong to be a masochist? These subjects can be difficult to address when google only has articles about how it can be a mental health disorder. We promise you, we approach this very realistically. *TRIGGER WARNING* While this episode isn't super explicit, some practices that are violent are mentioned as examples of how far some people can take things and in talk of boundary setting. *DISCLAIMER* Neither of us are experts, just normal people living and learning and doing our best, ready and willing to share what we know and our experiences. If you have an issue with anything in this episode, please reach out to Ellie on IG at @elliesugarrae. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sugarpussy/support