The Keys and Anklets Podcast
The Keys and Anklets Podcast
About The Keys and Anklets Podcast
On the K&A podcast we explore all aspects of the cuckolding and hotwife lifestyles with the primary goal of creating a sense of realism while separating fact from fiction within these often widely misunderstood lifestyles.
This is an episode I’ve been waiting a long time to do. 2 People who were already in the lifestyle when they met each other. Jason wanted a hotwife and found her. Casey wanted to be a hotwife and found her man. Theirs is a story of patience, perseverance, love, and learning to get out of one’s way. It will make you laugh, it’ll make you think. And mostly it will make you happy that these 2 people found each other when they did. Especially when you hear how close Casy was to just throwing in the towel and settling. I was struck by just how honest Casey was about what she was feeling through her journey and hopefully others out there will find her honesty inspiring. Enjoy
It’s always a pleasure for me to be joined on the podcast by my brother, Mr. Mocha. The conversations we have always force me to think and it’s even better when I get to let my listeners be the fly on the wall for one of our thought provoking discussions. On this episode we discuss how couples can tell the difference between a quality Bull and a Manicorn ( a term that the Mocha’s introduced me to). We also shed some light on how couples can avoid missteps when dealing with a quality Bull. This is a very insightful episode for any couple out there who wants to have an easier time with finding quality partners.
One of the things that I’ve set out to accomplish since I launched this podcast was to empower women to claim their own sexual identity. So whenever I have the pleasure of encountering one of these women, I jump at the opportunity to bring her story to you all.In this episode I had the pleasure of talking to C. She is a woman who I feel has an important story to share about her journey to becoming a sexually empowered woman and one who is doing it at an age that is not very common to see. For any woman who thinks that you can “age out” of this lifestyle, then this is something you need to hear.
One topic that comes up often when I talk to couples is the idea of a wife having a deep, emotional connection with her Bull. Some couples may find this idea unthinkable whereas others may be drawn to it. When it works, it can be beautiful, but when it doesn’t, it can have devastating consequences. My purpose with this episode is just to get people to have open and honest conversations with their partners if they are thinking about going in this direction.
I’ve interviewed a lot of couples over the years and I don’t think I’ve met anyone who is so visibly having as much fun with this lifestyle as Sayler and her husband. You can’t really put them in the cuckold lane or the hotwife lane because they’re just out here exploring and enjoying the ride. They are a testament to what I say about finding your own lane and making this lifestyle work for you and your partner. This is an episode that will definitely make you laugh.
In my time doing this podcast I’ve been very fortunate to meet some truly wonderful couples. With that being said, the ones that really warm my heart are the couples who have been through the grinder that is life before finding each other. I’m speaking about the couples who had been in prior marriages/relationships that didn’t work out. Couples who had all but given up on finding what they truly need to be happy so they’re just “making due”. The magic that happens when these couples find each other is very inspiring to me. Hannah and J are just such a couple. Theirs is a story of discovery, acceptance, love and exploration. I had the pleasure of meeting them and hanging out at Splash Mocha and I’m sure you’ll enjoy hearing their story as much as I did.
Mea culpa, which means "through my fault" in Latin, comes from a prayer of confession in the Catholic Church. Said by itself, it's an exclamation of apology or remorse that is used to mean "It was my fault" or "I apologize." This episode is MY Mea culpa. Thank you for listening.
You’ve heard me say it before but it bears repeating, one of the things that I truly enjoy about doing this podcast is all the fascinating people I get to meet and talk to. Nessa and D are another in the long line of captivating people that I’ve encountered. What struck me the most about them is just how well adjusted they are to being in the lifestyle. They’re one of those couples who seem to have everything in its proper perspective. You can hear it in the way they talk. This lifestyle just fits them to a tee and they couldn’t be happier. I guess you can say that they’re “Built For This”. Enjoy.
After several years in development, the launch of Compersionclub.com is finally here. My initial plan was to do this launch as a live Twitter spaces event but due to some technical difficulties this was unable to happen. We were still able to record the session and I am making it available for anyone to listen to who would like to. This was a momentous occasion as I was joined by many friends and contributors and team members at Splash Mocha in Houston. There was a small gathering in my suite as we kicked off the site and you will hear the festivities and jovial atmosphere in the background. Normally I would have done this in a quiet space but I wanted everyone who was listening to hear the energy in the room. Hopefully you won’t find it too distracting. Joining me to celebrate this incredible evening were 2 of my team members who played a big part in the development of this site, @blushing_vixen (her Twitter) and hotwife Erica (@bbcslutwife4u_2). Stopping in to chat with us throughout the night were my brother Pagan (@PAGANandT4WM), the founders of the Slut Sisters, Scarlet (@CuckoldressS) and Aine (@PriestessAine), and my brothers Mr. Mocha (@OFACEZ1) and last but certainly not least Ashley Del Toro (@AshleyDelToro23). So please sit back and listen as we talk about what Compersionclub means to us.
From the very first time I did a Bull Roundtable with my brothers Pagan, Demitri and Mr. Mocha, my dream was to get us all in the same place and record an episode live with all of us in the same place. Not an easy task with each of us spread all over the country. Thankfully Splash Mocha in Florida provided us with the opportunity. Sit back and listen to my brothers and I just shooting the breeze and enjoying each other’s company. Be prepared to laugh and learn a little more about what we truly think of one another. I had a blast doing this episode and can’t wait to do it again.
I will never Cease to be amazed at all of the incredible stories I get to hear of the journeys that these couples travel to find their way into this lifestyle. JJ and C are no different. Theirs is a story of a life built together that didn’t have the smoothest beginning. It was a journey of breaking the chains of social norms and self reflection and discovery. It’s a story of patience and love and the willingness to try a different approach when what they were doing wasn’t working. I had so much fun talking to this couple and I’m sure you will enjoy hearing their story.
One of the things that I enjoy about this lifestyle is that I get to meet some truly fascinating people. Lady Anaconda is no exception. This is a woman who I have had the pleasure of knowing for several years now and we have had many thought provoking conversations. This episode has been long overdue and I’m happy that I finally get to bring it to you. She is a woman who knows exactly who she is and what she wants. If you enjoy hearing from empowered women then you will certainly enjoy hearing what she has to say.
One of the things that I enjoy about doing these China Shop episodes is that I get to have in depth conversations with some of my fellow Bulls and hear all about their journey. Joining me in this episode is a gentleman I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know these past few months. Jodie is a cool dude who was introduced to the lifestyle far earlier than I was and I think you will find his story to be a most interesting one. He is a true testament that your age is definitely not a hindrance in the lifestyle. It’s all about what you do with the time you’ve been a part of it.
Once again another splash event is in the books, my 6th. For those of you who don’t know, Splash Mocha is a 3 day hotel takeover event for couples and women who enjoy the company of men of color. Here I share my thoughts on what this fantastic event was like for me. Sit back and enjoy and maybe I’ll see you there someday.
Rejection is one of those things that affects each and every person in the lifestyle. You’re either rejecting someone’s advances or having someone reject yours. It’s simply a regular part of the lifestyle yet many people struggle with it. I attempt to shed some much needed light on this issue and help people understand both sides and hopefully talk about it more openly.
For a long time I’ve been wanting to have a couple on my podcast who straddles that line between hotwifing and swinging. A couple who enjoys both playing with other couples as well as him sitting back and watching her be the star of the show. I’ve always been intrigued by these types of couples and I was very happy when I met one recently at splash mocha and even happier when they decided to be guests of mine. So sit back and enjoy as they talk about how much fun it is to play both sides of the fence.
One of the things that I enjoy doing is catching up with former guests to see how they’ve progressed in their lifestyle journey. One in particular that I’ve kept my eye on was Jewels from Episode 57. She has been a very busy woman, expanding on her dynamic with her husband, writing a book and appearing in a UK documentary just to name a few. She has become an inspiration to women around the world and I am thrilled to have the chance to talk to her again and find out what else she has been up to.
So it’s been 4 years since I first launched the Keys and Anklets Podcast and to help me commemorate this milestone I had a conversation with my good friend Mr. Mocha from the Ofacez Podcast. We thought it would be a cool idea to have him interview me on my own podcast so here you go. Me sitting in the guest chair for a change and having all sorts of questions thrown at me. We had a blast doing it and hopefully you’ll enjoy it as well and you may even learn some new and interesting things about your host.
A and Liana have the type of story that makes you believe in the power to heal that this lifestyle offers. These two both come from a past filled with failed relationships and got into this looking for something quick and easy and instead found something everlasting. If you enjoy hearing stories of true love and acceptance winning in the end then I know you will enjoy hearing theirs.
In March of this year I attended Splash Mocha in Atlanta and when I arrived, my brother Mr. Mocha invited me to stay at his home before the event started. We sat up one night and had a discussion about what couples can do to identify and attract good Bulls. Please listen to hear what we had to say. I think you will find this discussion very enlightening.