https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok Patreon The era of the Lonely Girl era is over. The girls deserve better than that. Summer is around the corner, the boys are cute, the girls are sexy. They deserve a kiss or two. Long gone are the days of blaming ourselves for societies failure of men. No, now when men do dumb things--we leave them as they are. Men who do dumb things. It is time to stop suppressing the lover girl inside because of realities bleakness. She needs breath! She is starved of beauty! She wants to see the world even if it is marred by bitterness and pain! To the Lover Girl vulnerability is her ultimate strength. The Lover Girl understands that there cannot be love in life without pain and still she yearns to experience it.

https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok Patreon In this weeks episode of POV, Divine discusses the other side of the daddy issues, trust issues spiral. She discusses building systems that allow her to express gratitude and to still see the silver lining even when things are not going well. She talks about balancing heart break, triggers and pain with the ability to still recognize gratitude in her every day life. She also discusses self sabotaging as a punishment for consistent singledom; anxious, and avoidant attachment vs. the goal of becoming securely attached. She also poses the question, “When I am dating how do I detach and focus on myself as well as the people I am seeing in a healthy way?” Our illustrious host also discusses her current road block in therapy.

https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok In part 1 of this episode, we return to the subject of attachment. As someone who is anxiously attached, Divine is not the best when it comes to “detachment”. Often, her bouts of anxious behavior are paired with spirals and this week was no exception. Paired with a fresh spritz of gossip, she takes you on her recent journey of mapping out her therapy journey moving forward. What do we need to work on? And how do we plan on doing so? Next week we will continue the conversation with gratitude and how spirals—anxiety and insecure attachments can distract from an otherwise good life.

In this episode, Divine finds herself at the unfortunate crossroad of realizing that she is in fact not perfect. It was a shocker to everyone and we are still shaken by the realization. Divine doesn't want to be "that girl" the one men can smell the daddy issues on from a mile away. In fact, she's done a great job deflecting and shedding any remnant of that hunger--that craving for male validation. She's rid herself of that. Yes, for a time she was healed. Stamped clear of the dreaded "trust issues" but now, our sexy host has realized she isn't in the clear. She's simply isolated. Now, she catches glimpse of these issues", lurking in the deep caverns of her mind patiently waiting for the moment when she has to put trust in someone else's hands. They sulk around waiting to reinforce those negative thought patterns. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok

Trigger warning: SA, Domestic Abuse: In this episode, our scrumptious host talks about all of the things she was enjoying until a dude came along and screwed it up. Up first, is BEEF, the Netflix show currently at no.2 most watched, that was her absolute fav until you guessed it. A man. So, she asks whether producers should do background checks. Or should David Choe be edited out of BEEF in the style of Little Mix Fans and Jesy Nelson Anno Domini 2020? Divine, then discusses Jonathan Majors, domestic abuser patterns, and the behavior towards abuse victims before and after they name their abusers. She also covers "Migrant rage" a term she coined (maybe). Think female rage but you're a second-generation immigrant. She covers Succession, and begins with "I'm glad Logan Roy is dead." So, you see where we're headed. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ Merch Twitter Tiktok

In the second part of our conversation with Lindsey Calhoun, our illustrious host, and her bestie discuss the foundations of a good friendship, trauma dumping, and the foundation of their relationship. The ladies also discuss celebrities in the media, parasocial relationships, and celebrities being over-saturated in the media. The girlies also talk about the socio-economic state of the world because why not. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ Merch Twitter Tiktok

On This episode, the tangerine has been defeated! We discuss the most important parts of Donald Trumps arraignment— what color self tanner he should wear to match the orange jumpsuit vs what color he should wear if the suit is black and white. Divine also goes in deep regarding the actual charges against the former president and what any of those big scary words mean. Divine discusses her abuse of the word “like” in the last episode, and also covers tv and Music (The Night Agent, Kings of Summer and Outer banks). She also gives a review of this weeks albums, “In Pieces” By Chloe Bailey and Victoria Monet’s exciting announcement that "Jaguar II" is coming! The Gowrls are ready. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok

Hello, Hello! This is a very exciting week! We have a very special guest, Divine's best friend Lindsey! Together they talk about their history, and deep dive into their pet peeves when it comes to being chronically online. These hotties also contemplate the generational divides between zoomers and millennials ( despite being both), and also get into feminism, capitalism and so so much more. This is literally like being on the phone with them. enjoy! https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/ Merch Twitter Tiktok

TRIGGER WARNING: GUN VIOLENCE How much is your life worth compared to someone who wants an AR-15? There's a monetary value and it's not very high. Sandy Hook Promise Brady United Prevention Institute Music courtesy of Audio Library. Vinephilo.com

We know. We know. The girl who low-key went viral for saying she believes in ghosting and in-fact advocates for it is now reconsidering having such a staunch stance on the matter. Because simply put, she grew up, and sometimes whether she likes it or not she can be wrong. Also, she watched Banshee’s of Inisherin, which raised some interesting points, so obvi she had thoughts. In this week's episode, Divine discusses Ghosting! From the POV of the ghosted. She talks about the loneliness and pain that comes with being abruptly abandoned and also discusses why it happens as well as how to heal from being ghosted. She discusses the delicate balance of self-love, selflessness, and selfishness. Divine also talks about the dating landscape and how it felt to experience it in a different place where to her surprise she wasn’t the problem! Love that for her. This episode is full of fun girl talk and giggles, so get comfy, grab a lil snack and tune in! https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ http://vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo

On this episode of TTMT Divine talks about the impending arrest of the 45th President of the United States. She compares the similarities between his school of thought and Precious'. Our beautiful host also talks about SWARM, the new show on Amazon. She also discusses the second half of YOU, the Netflix drama. She also covers Banshees Inisherin. Enjoyy! Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/ MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

On this episode of Texts to my Therapist. A very sick and snot-nosed Divine (YOU’VE BEEN WARNED) talks all things Oscars as well as the Murgdaugh Murders and the importance of bioluminescence in underwater movies. Like in all of Talokan, Namor could not find one glowing jellyfish? Anyways, Divine also talks about a bunch of other things she can barely remember at this point. Listen. She can barely remember her own name. She is sick and she is a baby. Enjoy the episode. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/ MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people, Divine included, need a recipe. This is Part 2 of Divine trying to give you the ingredients for the recipe, but don't forget she's an Island Gyal and doesn't use measuring cups. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/ MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people, Divine included, need a recipe. This is Part 1 of Divine trying to give you the ingredients for the recipe, but don't forget she's an Island Gyal and doesn't use measuring cups. Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/ MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

CONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder Texts to my Therapist #8: One Direction Made Me Who I AmCONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder On this weeks episode Divine talks about the Selena Gomez/ Hailey Bieber/ Kendall Jenner / Hadid sisters drama. This leads to a bigger conversation about fandom, and her experience as a One Directioner. The content warnings are for this next section, because yes she's been watching a lot (maybe too much) true crime. One that stuck out to her, real bad is "Don't F*ck With Cats", because after four years she finally watched it. She also talks about Succession and just crazy people in general. Love ya!

Ariana DeBose you will always be famous! It's the award show opener that has taken twitter and Divine's last two brain cells by storm. On todays episode, the most beautiful and funny host in the world talks about Ariana DeBose's ICON MAKING, BAFTA's performance. She also provides a clear reading of the lyrics, which obviously is necessary. Divine also discusses Jonathan Majors being "Civil Rights Era" fine as well as the podcasts she is currently listening to. Lastly, Divine sends a warning to Netflix. Joe Goldburge dies THIS season or she pulls an HBO Max and deletes EVERYTHING. Enough is enough. Thank you.

instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ http://vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Why are so many hot, sexy, girls lonely? The Hot, Lonely Girl in short is a lone wolf. She can't maintain a friend group to save her life. She has a hard time finding people to date, or is not interest in the ones that want to date her, thus leaving her without an "other". While all her friends are in long term relationships, getting married and having babies, the HLG seems to be falling the wayside. The HLG might even be content in singledom. The HLG paradox is not exclusive to women or relationships either. It is the person, who decided at 25 to take a chance on themselves and start their own business, while their friends have been on a set path since high school. The HLG is anyone taking the harder, longer, lonelier path--the path, that as hard as they may try--no one, except someone on a similar path, understands. This episode is about that. It's about having to be your own support system and your biggest advocate. It's about being there for yourself.

Rihanna said she had a surprise guest at the Super Bowl and a surprise it was! On this week's episode of Texts to my Therapist, we talk Super Bowl LVII! Rihanna's baby surprise, followed by a new study published by the National Bureau of Economic Research regarding socioeconomic status & childbirth in the U.S. Then, it's a bird! It's a plane! No! It's the Mylar balloon you lost your grip on when you were ten! Kidding. The confusing tale of the Chinese surveillance balloons, and the UFOs in North American airspace. We discuss what exactly is going on in the sky this week, because we, (me, Divine) are going to LOSE IT if another vague, "unidentifiable object" is shot down this week. We also have an impromptu discussion about Aliens, the ever-evasive "Tic Tac" spacecraft, Type I, II, & III civilizations, and some other super fun, not scary, stuff. <3 MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Listen to the Podcast Anywhere! https://linktr.ee/Povyouremytherapist

The winner of the Valentines day giveaway is Veedee223! Follow the instructions in this clip to send a screenshot of your review as well as your shipping address. <3 Thank you and enjoy!

instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ http://vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo As if it couldn't get any clearer that POV You're My Therapist is for the Gowrls, the Gays, the Thems and Theys, on this episode we talk about periods. Have you ever had a moment when you go to starbucks and the very nice barista gets your order right but they misspell your name and for some reason it enrages you👹 to the point that you're about to turn into John Wick🧑🏻‍💼 🐕 right after someone hurt his puppy? Or suddenly after literally doing the bare mininum, you feel so exhausted. Then you feel sad that you're exhausted, and ashamed that you're sad about being exhausted? That the end of the world is near anyways, so you cancel therapy and cry and try to swim through the motions of a depressive episode, alone? Or, you're looking at life like, "this isn't worth it, maybe I ought to go play in traffic." ? And you cry and cry and cry and you feel so beside yourself and out of control of your own thoughts that you literally don't know what to do...? And then two days later your period comes and suddenly the world is all 🍭☀️ sunshines and rainbows 🦄🌈 and you're so happy you didn't go all John Wick on the barista and go to jail. And you're happy you didn't play in traffic because, "Oh my God, life is a gift! A beautiful, beautiful gift! I love everyone and I am the most beautiful,🥰 happiest, 😇angel, alive."? Bestie, you might have PMDD. :( Also, we talk about kinkeeping. Btw! I will announce the winner of the Giveaway on Sunday!