15 - the african sexual tradition with Habeeb Akande

In this episode, Sophie interviews a historian and writer of sexuality, specifically in relation to African and Muslim traditions. With his background and experience, Habeeb shares the Rwandan sexual tradition called Kunyaza, and how it can revolutionize the way we relate and connect intimately with one another. This podcast is a must listen, especially for those who are interested in learning of the different takes people have on sexuality.

Timestamps

0:00 Intro

2:50 Who is Habeeb Akande

5:15 The Lion womanizer vs. the Hyena womanizer

9:15 Why are most men Hyena womanizers

16:40 Realizing consent by men

22:48 What is Kunyaza

32:54 How the sexual male ego creates disconnect

37:28 The sacred art of squirting

44:20 Deriving pleasure from your partner's pleasure

46:40 The erotology of Islam

55:46 Closing

Habeeb Akande is a British born writer and historian of Nigerian descent. He is the author of six published books on race, sex & relationships, and Islam. His research interest includes; Afro-Brazil, female sexuality, and African erotology. You can find him at: rabaah.com or on Instagram @habeeb_akande

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