Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?" Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG. Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT. IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal. Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses. In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts. EPISODES MENTIONED: "Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023) F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags. Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better! Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni's AMAZING book! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for. And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni's AMAZING book! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love? It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL. And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project. And by Times, we mean the New York Times. On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for someone pushing this lifestyle, in this episode we break down how this life may not be all that it seems... and not at all what Hannah had in mind. I wonder whose idea it was.... F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes. Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers can be just as toxic as narcissists. And that's not even the half of it... F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page) LISA'S LINKS https://strongerthanbefore.ca/ Lisa's Tiktok

Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control. And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simple thing your toxic ex did to drive you "crazy"? F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part... This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok tell alls, one fake accents, multiple fake deaths, and so much for. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "friend" they thought they had was just a man manipulating them to get in their pants. So... we're going to talk about it. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse, it does. If you want to listen to the full episode and see our lovely faces at the same time, watch this episode on the The F the Nice Guy Youtube page! Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned. We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page CHERI'S BOOK Baby Bear In The Chair

When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everything toxic men talking about diapers, toxic men talking about trees, and above all else, toxic men doing what they do best... being absolute hypocrites. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging. This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my friends, this one's a doozy. THERESE'S LINKS Youtube Tiktok F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble. Go Fund Me's of The Families Kate's Family: Nada Alaraj & Her 3 Little Girls Regan's Family: Yousra Saving Her Sick Dad F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one. On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we think they've been getting away with it. Believe me when I say, buckle up. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet. TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details) F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page