We've got updates! Always keep us posted if we answer your dilemma because we love to hear how your situation is working out! Of course, there's plenty of new dilemmas to help out with too this week. Should you believe the whole "he's not ready for a relationship" when you think he might be showing you otherwise? What do you do if your best friend is making no time or effort with you since getting a boyfriend? And how do you grieve over the loss of a pet?

No, Ellie hasn't gotten married. This week, we've got one of the most special guests we've ever had on the podcast before - Ellie's mam, Mrs Kelly! She spills the beans about Ellie as a child, her most memorable stories of their family, what she thinks of a career as an influencer and the secret to a long-lasting marraige. Mrs Kelly also helps us with some of your dilemmas, including what you should do if you're not really over someone who was never fully yours and should you trust someone with a "billy big bollox" attitude?

Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How do you confront a girl who's in your friend group but puts you down in every situation? Is it suspicious if the person you're seeing won't let you see his phone at all? Advice for when you're feeling lost and upset after a breakup? And is it a red flag if the guy you're dating only brings you to hotels and hasn't even told his mother about you?

What is a thirst trap? What kind of content is it, who posts it and who are they for? Charleen and Ellie discuss in this week's episode, and also reveal whether or not they have ever posted a thirst trap online and if they got their desired outcome from it. But is there also some toxicity in thirst trapping? As well as answering the thirst trapping questions, the girls are answering your dilemmas too. Is it okay for you to tell your friends everything about your partner? Do you keep pursuing a friendship with a someone who is never actively trying to uphold your conversations? And should you meet up with someone from Tinder when you are afraid they will get back with their ex if you don't?

We've got updates in this bonus episode! One is a shocking revelation! Of course, there are still plenty of new dilemmas to get through this week. How do you get over your ex breaking up with you out of the blue and disrespecting you? Is there anything to fix a controlling relationship? And what boundaries can you set with a friend so that you will remain friends only?

Charleen and Ellie are talking about some of the most well-known conspiracies, and some of their own superstitions, from magpies, to black cats and more. Charleen received amazing news this week, so you'll hear about that. And, of course, there's dilemmas to be helped with. Do you say something if you're boy-friend's girlfriend doesn't seem to like you? Should your boyfriend still be doing accounts for his ex's sister? How do you deal with past resentment in your healed relationship? And should you forget someone who you isn't giving you the attention and communication that you need?

Charleen and Ellie are back to answer even more of your dilemmas this week! What do you do when you find out that your boy-friend has caught feelings for you, but he hasn't told you himself? Do you bring up your drunken night of fun to your work colleague who you might be into? And how do you bring up a tough conversation with your partner who's not ready to be a father yet, but you are pregnant?

When two podcasts collide! The hilarious Grace Keeling, aka GK Barry from the Saving Grace Podcast is our very special guest this week! Grace talks about going viral on TikTok during lockdown, starting a podcast (which she didn't want to do), her favourite guests and dealing with trolls online. She also tries to pronounce Irish names, which goes...well, you'll hear for yourself. Grace gives her honest advice as she helps Charleen and Ellie with your Secrets From The Stalls? Should you let your brother's girlfriend (who you really don't think) come on a family holiday to visit you in Australia? Is your relationship just routine and toxic? And has your latex-loving boyfriend just become the biggest walking red flag?

Ellie and Sean are answering some extra dilemmas this week! Should you quit the job that you thought was your dream career? Do you confront the girl who drunkenly told you that she had slept with your boyfriend? How can you get your "mammy's boy" boyfriend to start doing things for himself? And how can you be more confident in the bedroom?

Wondering why this episode is out earlier than usual? It's because the presale for our live show in Vicar Street, Dublin on Tuesday, 4th of April is ON HAPPENING NOW! General sale will be happening this Friday, 17th of February, so make sure you get your tickets as soon as possible to avoid disappointment! This week, the wonderful Sean Phipps co-hosts with Ellie to talk about things that feel illegal, but aren't. Walking around barefoot, chewing loudly, clapping when the plane lands, mayonnaise...the list seems to go on. Sean is also helping Ellie give advice to a few of your dilemmas. Should you break up with your boyfriend when he's done nothing wrong, but you feel like you need time on your own? Is the boy with the girlfriend really flirting with you? And why is your supposed best friend acting sly and making remarks towards you all of a sudden?

The dilemmas keep coming, and Charleen and Ellie keep helping! On this episode, we give some advice on how to get over your ex who dumped you out of nowhere. Should you confront your friends if you think they are not making an effort to see you when you're living abroad? How do you deal with your in-denial boyfriend who's been looking up girls in lingerie outfits on Instagram? What should you do if your partner if a few chapters ahead of you in life, and you feel like they want you to catch up? And hear some advice for going through a raw breakup.

Do you need to ask someone to be your Valentine? If you're only seeing someone recently, do you get them something for Valentines Day? What are some gift ideas for your significant other to mark the occasion? What is a good date idea? Should you post about it on social media? Or is Valentines just a load of commercial nonsense? Charleen and Ellie are discussing all things Valentines (and Galentines) this week! We are also helping out with your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. This week, it's advice for a girl who's boyfriend got her best friend pregnant, and what do to if your partner is always too tired to have sex?

*Trigger warning: There are mentions of sexual assault in this episode* We've got more updates this week! Of course, there are new dilemmas that Charleen and Ellie are helping you out with too. What advice do you need to hear if your self-confidence is ruined and you feel like you will never trust again? Are you being toxic in your relationship? And is it okay to feel annoyed about your partner lying about losing their virginity?

This week, we are joined by the lovely and super talented band, New Rules. Nathan, Alec and Ryan talk about the origins of the group, life in the band, song-writing, fan mail, icks, red flags and so much more. You can find them on social media @newrules (or @newrulestweets on Twitter). Charleen and Ellie help out with a dilemma about a "friend" pushing you out of your group, and advice for a girl who found out her boyfriend was cheating on her via an Instagram DM from a random person.

As much as giving advice to your dilemmas, we LOVE hearing updates, and there's three updates today! Disclaimer: one of them may or may not have made Charleen and Ellie cry... This week, the girls are helping out a girl who feels like she's missing out on opportunities because her boyfriend does not want to go on holidays because they are "not worth it". Should you give your ex the time to better himself and get back to the old him, or should you stop romanticising his potential and accept that things will never be the same? And how do you deal with a really bad texter?

This new TikTok trend is "the belief that you can attract good things into your life by asserting that you deserve them and that assuming you are lucky will bring you good fortune". But is it a load of waffle or is it a real thing? Charleen and Ellie talk about 'Lucky Girl Syndrome', how it is practiced and what it can do for you, and we hear some of your opinions on this new manifestation trend. In Secrets From The Stalls, the girls help out with advice for a girl who is with her boyfriend for 5 years, but keeps thinking back to an old fling. How do you bring up the "what are we" conversation to the person you're seeing? And should you reach out to the guy who told you he wanted a relationship with you, but then it turned out that he was in it for the sex?

It's that time of the week, where Charleen and Ellie help out with answering even more of your dilemmas! How do you tell your boyfriend that his mother is too involved in your relationship? Do boys come clean about cheating or do you have to investigate into it? What can you do to open yourself up for a relationship when you're scared of the heartbreak it might bring? And is your personal trainer the person that a medium told you that you would meet?

There's lots of questions that we all have but you don't know who to ask or where to go to find the answers. They are the questions that you might feel awkward or scared to ask, or think that you should already know the answer to, so you don't ask at all. That is what this episode is for! From birth control, tampons, and shaving to first time doing the deed, consider Charleen and Ellie your 'big sisters' to answer your questions! Not only are the girls answering these questions, but, as always, they are also answering your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. What can you do if you think that guys see you as "easy" to get with, and you're not making any real connections with anyone? Should you confront your boyfriend if he's following and storing content from provocative accounts on social media? And is it time to hand in your notice if you're hating your job, but it's keeping you there for experience and money?

We're deep-diving into more of your dilemmas on today's bonus episode! How do you tell your friends that they need to start paying for services that you're providing as part of your business? What should you do if your boyfriend is making no effort to see you or to prioritize your relationship? And should you stick it out with a boy that keeps blowing hot and cold a lot, or just cut all contact and move on?

The girls mentioned Dry January as a potential New Year's Resolution on last week's episode. Charleen is determined to complete it. Ellie, not so much. Our producer, Leanne is on to talk about the fact that she has NEVER DRANK in her life, her reasons why and how she can go on nights out and to social events without alcohol. If you are attempting Dry January right now, or are still wanting to give it a go, the girls have some tips on how you can successfully complete it! Also on this episode, Charleen tells all about her exciting news (which you may have seen on Instagram)! There are dilemmas to be answered, as always, in Secrets From The Stalls. Should you stay friends with your ex-boyfriend got with another girl in the same college course as you? And do you cut contact with the person who dumped you out of the blue, or do you try to fight for what you once had?