The chaser and the runner, the pursurer and the distancer, the anxious and the avoidant. The push and the pull. This pattern is one of the most common patterns in a relationship and it causes an immense amount of suffering. Jillian teaches that this cycle goes beyond attachement theory and describes how our needs for both connection AND autonomy are the reason behind everyone will struggle with this cycle many times throughout their love lives. 
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Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. 
Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
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Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove
Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com
Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon
Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations
~~
Follow Jillian Turecki on
Instagram: @jillianturecki
Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki
Twitter: @JillianTurecki
Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com
~~
Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. 
To advertise on the show, contact us!

The Chaser and the Runner: The pattern that destroys a relationship

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