75: Consensual NonMonogamy: Triads, Polyfidelity, Jealousy Survival. Eve Eurydice Kitty Chambliss

Eve Eurydice speaks conscious sex with Kitty Chambliss, founder of the Loving Without Boundaries website & fb community, & relationship coach & polyeducator. Her mission is to normalize ethical monogamy--a monogamy that partners who can speak Sex can negotiate & agree on. The patriarchy’s 'rule' has been that exclusive monogamy is ethical &, by partiarchy's law of opposites, all non-monogamy is immoral. By separating our moral from sexual practices, we can be true & honest to our partners & to our authentic evolving selves. Kitty has written numerous blog posts on these topics, incl. her "Jealousy Survival Guide," & interviewed folks who specialize in the field of emergent conscious sexuality on her podcast. Ethical non monogamy is a way to save marriages & long term partnerships. As we evolve out of our sexual oppression into experimentation with honest freedom, we must slow down our learned reactions so we can be sure we behave not as we have been taught but from authenticity. We can heal each trauma or jealousy or insecurity as we become aware of it. Uncomfortable feelings are engine lights that go on to tell us we need to heal something. Lasting intimacy is unconditional acceptance. The norm still insists on the old obsolete way of being a couple when most marriages end in divorce. The dominant culture glorifies & spotlights that tunnel vision of romance & true love. We haven’t had healthy role models in our parents who were deeper in the old social conditioning. So we all have to change our social conditioning to begin to approximate our truth. We owe it to our children first & then to our partners & to ourselves to bring awareness to the world. If you want a life of integrity, if you wanna be Sex positive in a Sex negative world, Speak Sex! For more on Kitty, go to https://lovingwithoutboundaries.com For more ways to Speak Sex, go to https://speakwithEve.com For merch, books, art go to https://Eurydice.net or http://www.youtube.com/EveEurydice/ ⚡️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/speaksex/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/speaksex/support