Your weekly dosage of serious unserious takes from the TMS hosts is back! On this week’s hot block, we talk about catfish, the rising trend of trad wife aesthetics and dating expectations. Not to mention…the UK Thanos is back yet again? 👟 GRAB YOUR STEP AEROBICS TICKET: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/step-up-for-ghana-tms-x-the-forth-club-fundraiser-step-aerobics-tickets-878862731087 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all have our goals written down with our ideal timeline in mind; graduate, get married, buy a house, change the world, and live happily ever after 👀. But what happens when you realise that life is sending you in a different direction to your plans. Join your favourite online sisters and they discuss reevaluating your motivations, redefining purpose and finding contentment in God's plan? 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation 01:45 Housekeeping Announcements: TMS Book 🎉 03:39 Ding Ding Dilemma: How do I recover from academic failure? 18:30 Letting Go of Your Plan: Doing the deep work of confronting your heart & motives 27:54 Have we started idolising 'purpose'? 39:32 Detaching your identity from your work and talents 45:42 Practical tips on how to align with God and spiritual growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sisters, your midweek boost has dropped hot off the press! The question is - are you ready for it? From ghosting your WHOLE FAMILY, questioning whether or not men have artistic skills, to ‘clean hoarding’…the sisters are locked in with another hot episode on TMS Hottakes. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com References: Ghosting your WHOLE family: https://x.com/OKAYYYWOWWW/status/1777029272969875482 ‘Clean Hoarding’, Gluttony and restocking culture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEY8IyB653c Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The internet streets have been rocked and are still dealing from the revelation of the evil that goes on behind the scenes. From the shocking stories of abuse to scandalous tales of what the very rich and very powerful do for money - the sisters have a candid conversations on the reality of how difficult it is to be integral in the face of money and power. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From crime, to the illuminati, join your favourite online sisters as they deep dive into current trending topics such as the viral Tumelo interview clip and the 4B feminist movement. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com References: 'Influencers are lying about their lifestyle': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HR2D2EmnC0 'The illuminati and witchcraft - the year of exposure, Hollywood party': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwWlWwj48kQ&t=1262s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Marriage continues to be a sensitive topic for many of the sisters in the 21st century. With the rising global divorce rates, the perversion of faith and patriarchy, and so many questioning whether marriage is really worth it, the sisters weigh in on pertinent conversations on whether marriage really is outdated for the ‘modern woman’.  📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your mid-week boost of TMS Hottakes is back, and in this episode, we're getting through our hefty bank of dillemmas. From height insecurities to heeding warning signs from our parents, tune in to another session where we get deep into our agony aunt bag! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Dilemma 1: My friend keeps asking me for money... 11:05 Dilemma 2: Having everything you've wanted and feeling stuck... 24:30 Dilemma 3: My mother had a dream he'd ruin my life... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're fast approaching the end of the first quarter of 2024, and it feels as though many of us have had a whirlwind start to the year! In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on the lessons they've learned so far and across the board - and the transformation that has occured in spiritual, mental, emotional and spheres. Tune into another wholesome episode with your favourite online sisters! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements 02:11 Ding Ding Dilemma: I broke a man's heart... 15:17 Lessons learned in Q1: Celebrating Your Wins 22:19 Faith & Spirituality 37:30 Mental & Emotional Health 49:28 Physical Health & Self-Care Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode, the sisters talk about some strategies to overcome the depression that can be adulting (at least, in the UK), the epidemic of digitally altering photos, and the temptation to...steal?! All this and more in TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The process of maturing isn't always easy for women, and choosing to be a better woman is a daily practice. In today's episode, the girls talk about their own journey of 'becoming', the reality of pursuing wisdom, and what it looks like to truly step into the woman of purpose that God has called you into. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What extremes are permissable when you've done wrong to your partner? Would you go on a podcast to profess your undying love? Is it wise to marry young - especially with all these divorces left right and centre? The tea, as usual, is piping hot with another serving of TMS Hottakes. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Navigating dating and relationships seems to be a minefield these days, and identifying red flags can be even more challenging. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the rising levels of ‘no-good men’, identifying red flags and what to do when we’ve overlooked ALL the warning signs. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is Love REALLY blind? What kinky sexual requests are 'too much'? Why do we have so many grown folks playing high school teenagers on Netflix? Is Tyler Perry at it again? Coming to you hot with another episode of TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What is going on on Netflix: Tyler Perry's Mea Culpa, Blood & Water 15:08 Onlg God knows how we got here LOOOOL: Kinks and other things 26:35 Love is Blind Nonsense! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they share lessons they took from the viral TikTok storytime ‘Who TF Did I Marry?!’ from spotting the red flags to desirability politics and so much more. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if your husband buys his sister-in-law a Valentine's Day Gift? Are sending blue heart emoji's enough to repair a broken relationship after infidelity? What to do when your man stays lying? All this gist and a catch-up on all our fun times and trips awaits you in this episode of TMS Hottakes 💫 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Who TF Did I Marry?! - A 52-part TikTok Storytime 08:26 The Girl with the Louding Voice Dilemma 12:07 Your Sister in Law is Your Valentine 18:00 Blue Heart Emojis & Bare Minimum Romance 25:47 How often do you speak to your mother? 28:06 Do we want kids? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Healing isn't easy. From dealing with generational trauma to the pain we caused ourselves, it seems like the girls are in a season of trying to overcome old wounds that have penetrated deep below the surface. How do we move on in a meaningful way that is authentic and holistic? Prepared for an intense chat on today's episode of TMS! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation! 01:15 What happened to the visuals 👀 09:25 The tea on our trip to South Africa 🇿🇦 22:00 Thank you for supporting our paperback 📚💌 22:48 Some encouragement for the girlies looking to start something new ✨ 24:49 🇺🇸 We're heading to New York City!!! 26:52 Ding ding dilemma: My partner and I have a very different approach to finances... 38:24 The non-linear nature of healing is frustrating! 52:29 Learning to be patient and compassionate towards yourself 56:52 Reframing how we think about generational trauma 01:07:07 Cycles are the biggest cause of delay 01:11:52 Breaking generational curses one generation at a time Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes your favorite online sisters play a game (badly), discuss the rhetoric surrounding women out-earning men, who would you want to pass first out of you and your partner, and they answer a heartfelt dilemma from a sister trying to support a friend who has just lost their parent. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Let's play a game... 11:32 Why do people think it's ok to call you randomly?! 14:35 Women are out-earning men as a... "trauma response"? 21:24 Could you live without your partner? 28:38 Ding ding dilemma: Supporting my friend who just lost her parent 38:36 How often do you take out your wig braids? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Constant body changes are a normal part of womanhood. From your monthly hormonal cycle to rapid weight gain and loss, learning to love your body can be a tough ride. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters share their experiences with body dysmorphia, battling the desire for the male gaze, and learning to love themselves in a society that punishes self-acceptance. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements 07:36 Ding Ding Dilemma: My friend accused me of theft... 19:11 Dealing with insecurity and body dysmorphia 33:04 Feeling undesirable and unhappy 44:45 How sisterhood and community helps you accept yourself 57:15 Divesting from the male gaze Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting lost in daydreams is now becoming an addiction according to the girlies - so what do we do when reality just isn't hitting right? From mental escapism to our favourite films, not to mention our travel hacks and 'girl dinners' - TMS is back with another hot-off-the-press episode of TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes we need to be raw and honest about the ugly - and in today's episode, the sisters are taking on the 'ugly' behind comparison, envy, and jealousy. From our own experiences of comparison and jealousy, to talking about the challenges facing women being pitted against each other, tune into another episode where we go deep into what it takes to 'keep up with the Joneses'. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters 💌 Send your dilemma to dilemmas@tomysisters.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.