Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about anal sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like: Who has anal sex? Why do people have anal sex? How should we have anal sex to minimise risk and maximise pleasure? Things also get a little heated as Cate and Diggory clash over their answers to listener questions about how to find a healthier balance between casual sex and commitment when dating and whether one man, whose girlfriend of 9 years has invited him to watch her and her friend have sex for the first time, is justified in feeling like he should be able to have sex with the friend, too. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss: Why some straight men have sex with men What defines someone's sexual orientation The difference between your sexual and erotic orientation Joe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://joekort.com/ Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like: Where did the idea of 'lesbian bed death' come from? How do lesbians sex lives compare to their counterparts in other relationship styles? What is responsive and spontaneous desire and which one do I have? Cate and Diggory also answer two listener questions about whether its okay to fantasise about having sex with other people whilst you're in a relationship and getting into creampie with your wife. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing: The issues with Dating Apps What are situationships How porn is leading us to have deficit sex How to communicate what you want from your partner How celibacy can improve your sex life You can find Lalalaletmeexplain here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalaletmeexplain/ And you can purchase Lalalaletmeexplain's book, Block, Delete, Move On: It's Not You, It's Them here: https://linktr.ee/blockdeletemoveon Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From 'Situationships' to 'Friends with Benefits', Cate and Diggory discuss why people have casual relationships and what are some best practices for them before answering questions sent in by listeners, including: I sleep much better when my partner doesn't share a bed with me. Is it okay for a couple to sleep in separate beds? My partner is always asking me for sex and the more more I say no, the moodier they get. Am I being unreasonable? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss: The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be treated differently to heterosexual clients The importance of having a 'Pink' therapist Body Image Issues in the gay community You can find Silva Neves here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/ And you can purchase Silva Neves' book on Compulsive Sexual Behaviours here: https://www.routledge.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-A-Psycho-Sexual-Treatment-Guide-for-Clinicians/Neves/p/book/9780367465483 Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cate and Diggory discuss what bisexuality is, whether it's on the rise and debate whether we need labels at all before answering listener's questions which include whether someone can go off their boyfriend because they're 'too nice' and when should someone tell potential partners about their anxiety and depression. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7  -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Losing your virginity. What does it actually mean? Is it important? What should you know before you do it? Can you get it back!? Diggory and Cate answer these questions as well as share stories of their first kisses, answer a listener's relationship conundrum about how to open up their relationship and discuss the problem with the stereotype that men are up for sex all the time. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by comedian and actor Jack Barry to discuss his sex education, acting as his parents marriage councillor and why he and his partner opened up their relationship. For those of you at this year's Edinburgh Fringe Festival, you can hear more about Jack's story by seeing his show 'Don't Happy, Be Worry' at the Monkey Barrel, MB4 starting at 10:40pm from now until the 28th August 2022. Tickets can be purchased here - https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on/jack-barry-don-t-happy-be-worry And you can find Jack on Instagram here. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by Meiji University Professor Dr Alice Pacher to talk about her new book (No) Sex in Japan. They discuss why fewer and fewer people are getting into relationships and why those that are in relationships are having less sex within them. They also touch on Japan's rapidly falling birth rate, what that means for the future of the country and what we can learn from that in the West. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod You can find Dr Alice Pacher's book, '(No) Sex in Japan' here - https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-981-16-8464-7 You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever wanted to know how to have festival sex, put your sex knowledge to the test or have some of your burning questions answered by a sex and relationships therapist? Listen in as Cate and Diggory did their first ever live recording of the podcast that they performed at Latitude 2022. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7  -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod Thank you very much to Kirsty, Flora and Rhiannon from Festival Republic for inviting us to perform at Latitude 2022 and thank you to everyone that came to see us there! If you'd like us to perform at your festival, event or back garden, do send get in touch via any of the links above! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to host of the F**ks Given and Love High podcasts Florence Bark about her own history with heartbreak. They discuss all aspects of breaking up, and answer questions like: Should you cut complete contact with your ex? What techniques can you use to help get back to feeling yourself again? When is it okay to move on and start seeing new people? You can find Florence Bark on Instagram here: @florencebark and listen to her podcasts: Love High and F**ks Given Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: -      Our anonymous Google Forms:  https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hypergamy - the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background - is popping up more and more recently. Coaches are creating Instagram and Tik Tok accounts to teach hundreds of thousands of people (mostly straight women) how to successfully date upwards and to date upwards and attract 'Alpha Males' & 'High Value Men'. Diggory and accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell discuss this phenomenon and ask Has it been around for longer than we think? Why do people (particularly young straight women) want to date 'upward'? What does coaching someone to date upwards look like? Is it ethical to couple up with someone for money and status rather than genuine connection? How long will this last for? Diggory also puts your sex questions and conundrums to Cate which in this episode revolve whether to have a baby in a sexless marriage and why one woman's boyfriend always apologises after sex... If you have any questions for our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to award-winning writer, editor and campaigner Sophie Gallagher to talk about the emergence and rapid rise of Cyber Flashing - the unsolicited and non-consensual sharing of explicit images. They discuss: How prevalent is Cyber Flashing? What sort of effect does it have on victims? Why is the law surrounding it inadequate? Why do perpetrators do this? Why has this been a problem that women have been tasked with solving? And they ultimately end the discussion asking how can men help? Which, Sophie goes into more detail in her book of the same name – How Can Men Help? You can buy Sophie’s book here: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/how-men-can-help-a-guide-to-allyship-accountability-and-improving-the-future/9781802792973?aid=10269 You can find Sophie on Twitter @SCFGallagher & Instagram @sophiecfgallagher This episode makes reference to sexual abuse. If you have been affected by anything raised in this episode, help can be found here: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Women’s Support Project · EMDR - Find a therapist who's right for you. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory go on their first school trip to the cinema to watch the new film, 'Good Luck to You, Leo Grande' in which Emma Thompson plays a retired widow who hires a young sex worker to give her her first ever orgasm. This sparks some conversation that, be warned, contains some light spoilers for the film - but nothing that hasn't already been mentioned in the press reviews or interviews for the movie already - so if you want to see the film without knowing much about it, come back and listen to this episode after you've watched the film. Off the back of that, Cate and Diggory go on to talk about orgasms and the orgasm gap, in which they discuss: What the Orgasm Gap is? Is it easier for men to orgasm than women? Can everyone orgasm? Why is the gap widening? How can we close the Orgasm Gap? Then, Diggory puts questions to Cate sent in by you, our listeners! Is a couple in their 60s 'too old' to start having sex again? And how should someone with a hair fetish tell their girlfriend that they're feeling less desire for them now they've had a haircut? If you have a question that you'd like an accredited sex therapist to answer, about your own sex life or just something you're curious about in general, let us know! You can email your queries into us via email, podcasts@hattrick.com or on Twitter and Instagram, we're @RealSexEdPod and don't worry - if you don't want people knowing you've asked the question, we'll keep your anonymity safe! The article and research cited in this episode can be found here - https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jun/11/orgasm-gap-how-hollywood-and-science-neglected-female-pleasure?utm_term=62a43d78ee89c15e7482962247eaf59d&utm_campaign=GuardianTodayUK&utm_source=esp&utm_medium=Email&CMP=GTUK_email The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory talk all things Cuckolding and interview Steve (not his real name) who partakes in a specific kind of cuckolding with his wife called 'Hotwifing'. They speak to Steve about: What Cuckolding and Hotwifing is Why he and his wife got into Hotwifing Steve's best tips for making sure you and your partner can avoid jealousy Bad experiences finding partners to join them His plans to create a dedicated Hotwifing website Want to know more about Cuckolding? You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ Next week, Cate will be back to answer all of your sex and relationships questions. If you have anything you'd like to ask, make sure you email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or DM them to us on Instagram - @realsexedpod - Why not give us a follow on on Instagram whilst you're there? This episode makes reference to sexual abuse. If you have been affected by anything raised in this episode, help can be found here: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Women’s Support Project · EMDR - Find a therapist who's right for you. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell takes her son Diggory on a deep dive into all things Daddy Issues. They answer some of the key questions: -      What are Daddy Issues? -      Are they even real? -      What is the link between Daddy Issues and sex? -      What do they have to do with attachment theory? -      Who can have Daddy Issues? We then open up our mailbag to answer two of your listener questions about labiaplasty and lasting longer in bed. You can send in YOUR sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! They can be personal to you or just a general query you have and don’t worry – we’ll keep you anonymous if you’d like! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate discuss the new bill in the UK which will make it compulsory to input data that proves you’re over 18 before you can watch any pornography online. Is this a good thing? Enter sex educator and owner of bishuk.com, Justin Hancock who tells us whether we should be worried about the effect that porn is having on young people before outlining how we can improve sex education in schools, the importance of teaching people not just about sex but relationships and feelings as well in sex ed, what are some of the most common questions he gets from young people on his website and what Nigella Lawson can teach us about the relationship between consent and power… You can find today's guest, Justin Hancock, on Instagram - @bishsexed and his website is bishuk.com You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ Subscribe to wherever you’re listening to this podcast now so you’re first to listen next week when we’ll be back answering some of the sex and relationship questions you sent in to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email ANY questions you have to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod so you can have your question answered on future episodes! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell is quizzed by her son Diggory on all things sexual compatibility: What is sexual compatibility? How important is it that we're sexually compatible with our partner? Can we improve our sexual compatibility with our partner? Is sexual compatibility grounds for starting or ending a relationship? What star signs are sexually compatible? Then, Cate answers some of YOUR burning relationship conundrums which this week include questions around whether you're a 'real gay' if you don't practice an*l sex and whether you can get pregnant from pre-c*m. If you have a subject like sexual compatibility you'd like us to discuss or have a query about your own sex life you'd like answered, please do send them into us at podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Twitter or Instagram, we're @RealSexEdPod. And don't worry - we'll keep your anonymity safe if you'd rather your name not be on the show! Make sure you're subscribed to us wherever you're listening to this episode now to make sure you're the first to hear new episodes when they drop every week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you orgasm from having your nipples played with? Is one boob often bigger than the other? Can you lactate just from hearing a baby cry? Join accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory as they quiz Jackie Adedeji on all things boobs. They also find out what was it like for Jackie to hit puberty so early that she was treated like an adult when she was still a child, what her boobs have taught her about herself and what her vicar Father thinks of her campaigning about boobs. You can keep up to date with everything Jackie is up to on her Instagram: @ohmygoshitsjackie Make sure you're subscribed to the podcast wherever you're listening to it right now so you're the first to hear new episodes that drop every Thursday. To keep up to date with the podcast and any announcements, follow us on Instagram and Twitter - @realsexedpod Got a sex or relationship question you're dying to know the answer to? Send in a question to Cate, an accredited therapist, who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram or Twitter - @realsexedpod Not bored of boobs yet? You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.