Have you found yourself constantly attracting the same person in a different body? In this episode, I share why this may be happening and provide insight into a five-step process that when followed can create lasting changes in the type of partners and dynamics you attract. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I think productivity is over-glorified, over-valued, and over-emphasized in our culture. The glorification of productivity conditions us to externalize our value and believe that our worth does not exist beyond what we are capable of producing and doing for others. In this episode, I also unpack and explore what the obsession with productivity, being busy, and chasing goals is helping us avoid. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Register for my upcoming two-part online workshop: https://resources.byermeas.com/empowering-women-nurturing-men-workshop Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I share 5 reasons why I believe every man needs to go celibate at some point in his journey. I share some of the benefits I noticed from my own celibacy journey, things men need to unlearn and deprogram, and how future relationships will be impacted as a result. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I discuss why I do not identify as a polarity teacher, the ways that these teachings can be harmful rather than constructive in a relationship, and how I apply these teachings in my own personal life. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I talk about what dark masculine and feminine energy are, what they are not, and how we can begin to integrate, purify and embody these energies in an authentic and empowered way. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I cover my 6 tips to help you set stronger boundaries. So whether you are new to developing this skill, or have had years of practice, the tips I share will be able to support you in refining and strengthening this ability no matter where you're at in your journey. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Healing our deepest wounds and improving ourselves is such a gift not only to ourselves but also to our relationships, but often this endless ambition to be better or more "healed" feels more comforting and safe than being and accepting who we are right now in this moment at this point in our journeys. This is how healing gradually becomes a cover-up for perfectionism... Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private coaching programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When advice like "if he wanted, he would" goes viral and is validated and approved by thousands of people we end up taking it at face value, ignore the nuances and fail to skillfully filter it through the context of our life and unique relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I wanted to share more about my personal and spiritual journey. What are the events that lead me to the work that I'm doing today, what are the experiences in my childhood that shaped the beliefs I have, and a glimpse into my spiritual awakening and initiations that took place in my early 20s. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What does the rise of the sacred feminine mean to us as a collective, as individuals, and to our future? How can we consciously participate in this awakening? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To learn more about my private coaching programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I hear this all of the time, “where are all the good men?” “All the available people are taken and married.” But what does this belief secretly give us permission to do, what is the unconscious benefit/payoff we get from believing this? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Being authentic is about being your true self, accepting yourself, and not shrinking who you are or your values to avoid rejection or being misunderstood. But how can we be authentic without trying to control other people’s views of us? How can we be our full, vibrant selves while also being mindful of those around us? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

There comes a time in your journey when the most empowering, healing, and healthiest thing you can do for yourself is to choose to no longer engage or maintain a relationship with your toxic family. This episode is a guide to help you know when and how to establish no contact. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When it comes to dating women there's a common belief amongst men that in order to get the girl, you have to embody and become the asshole or the jerk. So the saying goes, “nice guys finish last.” But this is so far from the truth so today I want to demystify this myth and talk a little about what women actually want from a man. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeas To book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

There was a time when the primary purpose of our relationships was to ensure our survival and the continuation of our lineages. Now today that has become only one aspect of why we seek partnership and love. We now are driven by the desire for emotional depth, intimacy, spiritual evolution, and healing. But the fulfillment of these desires cannot truly unfold when we are relating to each other within the context of assigned gender roles. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

There’s no doubt that the consumption of porn is more accessible and more acceptable in our society and sometimes even in our relationships. Porn sites get more traffic than Twitter, Instagram, Netflix, Pinterest, and LinkedIn combined. Even though for the most part it is free, there is definitely a price we pay. And when it comes to creating healthy, intimate connections with others, the price may be too high. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

There is this sweet and nice girl persona that women tend to embody as a way to create safety for themselves but also as a way to secure a man. But the men that they secure that desire them to be sweet and nice in order to love and commit to them, are not actually real men. In this episode, I explore why men like this are immature and what fears they're protecting themselves from by being with a woman that’s sweet and nice all the time. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It is easy today to notice how disconnected men are from their emotional sensitivity and how this lack of self-awareness and emotional intelligence has and continues to lead to violent outbursts of rage and violence towards other men and women. In this episode, I want to focus on of the biggest reasons I believe men lose sensitivity to their emotions and how they affect others. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever felt that you were responsible for someone’s healing or wellbeing? And if you weren’t in the picture or if you didn’t tend to their needs they would be a wreck and couldn’t take care of themselves or something terrible would happen to them? In this episode, I discuss how this pattern of relating known as codependency, when it goes unchecked and unnoticed evolves and becomes what can be seen as a Savior Complex. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Fathers today are either completely absent or emotionally unavailable. And how fathers show up today not only affects women and daughters but men and young boys— it shapes their perspective of manhood and masculinity. So based on the state of men today there is a conversation that men are not having with each other about the effects of having absent or emotionally unavailable fathers. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google Podcasts Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy