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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

What Motivates Men to Commit

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them.  

Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance. 


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x
  • 09:54 When a man is in love, he’s motivated more
  • 11:27 When a man doesn’t feel he’s making a positive difference in someone’s life
  • 15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves
  • 21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries
  • 22:55 Step 1 - Motivation
  • 23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility
  • 24:45 Step 3 - Practice
  • 26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more
  • 28:38 The difference between needing and neediness
  • 31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraid


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