#130 | Away with the Labels with Arielle Dyment | Tessa’s Warstory

Alcohol free. Sober. Recovering Alcoholic. What’s the difference? And does it really make a difference?

Today we’re joined by Arielle Dyment who joined us as a special guest host from Peru. We’re getting into labels in recovery. When we’re new to the recovery space, we can get really caught up in the minushia. Often, the overwhelming nature of “what to do” can keep a lot of us sick. We invite you to put down the labels and pick up something useful, like a mentor or sober coach. The labels do not serve us.

This topic was inspired by a warstory from Tessa. Tessa spent most of her life thinking she was a normal drinker having gotten caught up in the mommy wine culture. When the pandemic hit, her drinking quickly escalated very quickly. She was seeking treatment to discover what was wrong with her but it soon became apparent that she had to do something about her drinking. This thrust her down a path she could have never anticipated, sober now for 18 months.

Tessa and Arielle are both involved with a sober app called Lived which is designed to help those who think they may have a drinking problem but not sure how best to address it. Lived has information from Sober coaches and people in recovery all over the world that will help the sober curious know how best to address their drinking.

You can download the Lived app for free at www.lived.app

Check out the Sober Mom Squad here: https://www.sobermomsquad.com/

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RESOURCES

Excellent Drugs and Suicide resource from The Recovery Village www.therecoveryvillage.com/drug-addiction/drugs-and-suicide/

If you have questions about how your condition can lead to suicidal thoughts check this out from The Recovery Village www.therecoveryvillage.com/co-occurring-disorders/suicide-hotline/

Alcoholics Anonymous online meetings

https://aa-intergroup.org/

Narcotics Anonymous online meetings

https://virtual-na.org/

Find an Overeaters Anonymous meeting

https://oa.org/find-a-meeting/

Refuge Recovery website

https://refugerecovery.org/

Substance Abuse and Mental Health services

1-800-662-HELP

https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

Suicide prevention hotline

1-800-273-8255

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Domestic Violence hotline

1-800-799-SAFE

https://www.thehotline.org/

National Human Trafficking hotline

1-888-373-7888

https://humantraffickinghotline.org/

More information about Human Trafficking within the trucking community can be found here:

https://www.lanierlawfirm.com/trucking-and-human-trafficking/

Al-Anon information (support for families)

https://al-anon.org/

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