Resident sexologist and pleasure activist Tanya Koens joins Maleeka on Up For It to discuss what makes a good date. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens - our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist - is back in the studio to discuss compulsory heterosexuality: how are we conditioned towards heteronormativity, how can we decondition from compulsory heterosexuality, and how to unpack internalized homophobia/biphobia? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio to discuss 'Decolonising Sex'. Head to the Mornings program page on FBi Radio's website to access resources mentioned in this episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How does stress affect experiencing pleasure? Does masturbation help stress levels? How can you feel sexy during stressful times? Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist answers all our questions on the relationship between stress and sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do romantic relationships often take priority over non-romantic relationships in our society? Have you ever felt confined by these definitions of romantic love? Following on from the last episode on "Queer-platonic Relationships", our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist, Tanya Koens is on the show to expand on the notions of love and how to care for your single friends and/or yourself! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you feel confined by the societal definitions of relationships? Have you ever felt an indescribable closeness to your friends which isn’t championed like heterosexual, romantic relations? On today’s episode of LTAS, Tanya Koens (resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist) will be exploring Queer Platonic Relationships & just how important these are to our understanding of love. This one hits the feels. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“If you don’t have to think about it, it is privilege." Have you ever thought about how bodily autonomy not only applies to intimate relationships but also in the context of healthcare, and identity expression? Maybe you have thought about how idealisation of bodily integrity often does not exist for female bodies, trans-bodies and for people with differently abled bodies. Tanya Koens, our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio to discuss this incredibly important topic, and answer your questions on “The Importance of Bodily Autonomy”. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens is in the studio to discuss all things "Consensual Non-Monogamy" (CNM). This relationship style, that is usually described as "Ethical Non-Monogamy" (ENM), involves expanding a relationship to add romantic and/or sexual partners. Tanya and Deb discuss how CNM/ENM is practised, and why there is a shift towards the term consensual! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens our resident sexologist, pleasure activist and relationship therapist is back in the studio! We’ll explore the impacts of religion on perceptions of sex, what is religious-trauma syndrome, and how to develop a healthier relationship with sex! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Love is a doing word - it’s an act of showing up.” Resident sexologist Tanya Koens is here to answer all our questions on “Genital Response vs Arousal vs Desire (vs consent)”. An exciting episode inspired by Emily Nagoski’s “Come As You Are”, Tanya helps us understand areas like if you can have sexual arousal without sexual desire & what is arousal concordance? “My genitals don’t tell you what I want or what I like - I do” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, we explore a different form of self-pleasure through the world of audio guided masturbation (also called audio porn), and how it compares to 'traditional' porn. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode, we dive into the complex and often misunderstood topic of paraphilias See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya Koens joins us to talk when open relationships go wrong - what do you do?!? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered what to expect when going into a sex therapy session? Resident sexologist Tanya Koens tells you everything you need to know. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

From the beach, a car, your backyard, to a movie theatre, sex in public can be hot or incredibly daunting. We've given you the rundown on everything you need to know, from position suggestions to the risks involved. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're celebrating 100 episodes of Let's Talk About Sex with a very special AMA edition, answering your burning questions on everything from anal sex, threesomes, genital warts, asexuality, BDSM and body image. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're back with for Conset Pt.2 with resident sexologist Tanya Koens to talk communicating, negotiating and withdrawing consent. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In another LTAS special, the renowned Dr. Betty Martin, who has taught everything from peer counseling, gender liberation, embodiment and empowerment to fantasy play, goddess awakening and erotic massage, joined us to talk everything consent! Learn more about Betty and the Wheel of Consent at bettymartin.org See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

PhD. Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Surrogate Partner Therapist, author of Erotic Massage and 8 Erotic Nights…and a storyteller joined us to chat about the empowering experience of entering sex work at age 54. She founded the BodyJoy Intimacy School in Austin, Texas, twenty years ago, attracting thousands of students from surrounding states to her workshops and classes on new ways to talk, touch and play together—all safe and sensual. On stage, her raw truth telling and humor ‘humanize’ sex. Her other play, Tales of Sex Magic & Healing, chronicles a dozen short stories of her beloved clients, “Yes, intimacy can be taught!” Dr. Charla empowers students with clear choice and consent—the heart and soul of erotic joy. Experience her incredible message and humour live as she tours her Naked At My Age show in Sydney this Feb. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re wrapping up a big year on LTAS with a deep dive into fantasies - resident sexologist Tanya Koens joined us one last time to chat keeping our fantasies under wraps vs getting them out into the open with a partner, plus so much more! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.