290. 2 Things Getting In the Way of Connecting with Your Spouse

Hey there! Before we dive into today's podcast, let me give you a sneak peek into my chaotic life as a mom wrangling kids for dinner and soccer practice. But hey, this won't be a long episode. I'm thrilled to share that come January, I'm launching a new course, and if you're on the email list, you'll be the first to know, with some exclusive offers coming your way. Today, I'm delving into a topic close to my heart—relationships. I've been thinking about two major hurdles we often face: firstly, not seeing people from the heart, reacting instead of understanding; and secondly, the reluctance to self-reflect when things go awry. Drawing from a recent experience with my son and his teacher, I emphasize the importance of both parties owning up to their roles. So, here's the deal: practice pausing when triggered, understand your own stories, communicate openly, and embrace self-reflection. If you haven't joined the "Resentment Trap '' course, you're missing out—link's in the show notes with a special discount. Lastly, a personal note, Peter and I are sharing a profound story on my new YouTube channel—check it out, share, and tag me. Your support means the world. Love you all and catch you on the next episode!

“We make the unconscious conscious, we speak to the thing that is happening. That's always the starting point is to speak to the thing that is happening.” – Joy Harrington

• Reflecting on two common challenges: not understanding people from the heart and avoiding self-reflection.

• Speak to your feelings and trigger stories to diminish their power and make the unconscious conscious.

• Encouraging a pause when triggered, emphasizing the need to understand personal stories and open communication for healthier relationships.

• Don't miss the new YouTube channel; the link's in the show notes. Watch, share, and tag—it's a heartfelt story worth sharing.

Link for the YT channel to watch the video: https://youtube.com/@LevelUpYourMarriage?si=5QmkY1i33kBGB9AJ

Link for the resentment trap: https://www.levelupbabe.com/thelevelupclub

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