If you're planning a wedding and love our planet, this episode is packed with tips, stories, and a bit of fun that’ll help you make a difference. Michelle brings together a fantastic crew of experts who are passionate about making weddings greener. You’ll meet Courtney Barrett, an environmental scientist weaving eco-friendly magic into her own wedding, and Cris Angsten from the green-certified Oak Leaf Cottage, sharing her personal journey to sustainability. Plus, wedding planner Kristen Gosselin and David Schoenfeld from Ring Bear drop some serious knowledge (and cool ideas!) on keeping your big day beautiful and environmentally sound.  We're all about sustainable weddings—not just for Earth Day, but for every day!  Want to listen Ad-Free? Click HERE to become a premium subscriber: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Links We Referenced Courtney on Instagram Poshmark https://wildalchemyphotos.com/ https://www.thicketfloraldesign.com Oak Leaf Cottage Website Oak Leaf Cottage on Instagram KG Events Design Website KG Events Design on Instagram Ring Bear Website Ring Bear on Instagram The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

PLEASE LISTEN! Some important updates about the future of our show. This episode is a bit different, as I’m discussing the changes coming to the podcast and what it means for you, my valued listeners. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics Covered A Heartfelt Thank You: Expressing my deep gratitude for the incredible support from our listeners, especially our paid premium subscribers.  Major Changes: Announcing the transition of our podcast back to a free feed model and the shift to releasing new episodes monthly.  Our Rich Library: Over 400 episodes filled with invaluable wedding planning advice and stories are now freely available. This treasure trove of content remains a resource for anyone planning their wedding. Premium Feed Adjustments: Introducing the new format of our premium feed, which will continue to offer an ad-free listening experience with a slight change in content offerings. The subscription pricing has been adjusted to $4.99 a month or $45.99 annually. A Brief Pause: Explaining the pause in releasing new episodes until the end of the month as we transition to the new model. Your patience during this period is greatly appreciated. Looking Ahead: So much excitement for the next chapter of The Big Wedding Planning Podcast and the value-packed episodes to come. Questions or Feedback? If you have any questions about the changes or need assistance with your subscription, please don’t hesitate to reach out at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com. The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeding your wedding vendors isn't just courtesy—it's a must, especially for those who dedicate hours to make your day special. In this episode, I chat with my dear friend and seasoned wedding pro, Duncan Reyes. Dive into our lively discussion on the ins and outs of vendor meals, filled with insights, laughter, and Duncan's unmatched charm. Don't miss out! Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Understanding the necessity of providing vendor meals Clarification on which vendors require meals Insights into the cost of vendor meals Optimal timing for serving vendor meals during the event Whether vendors should receive the same meal as guests Options for sourcing vendor meals: caterer vs. external options Timing for finalizing vendor meal counts alongside guest counts Inquiring about food allergies among vendor staff About The Guest Duncan Reyes began his illustrious career as a Corporate Event Planner before moving into luxury hotel management and event planning with roles at The Portman Hotel, The Pan Pacific Hotel San Francisco, The Fairmont Hotel in both San Francisco & Chicago, The Julia Morgan Ballroom, and The Westin St. Francis Hotel San Francisco. With over 30 years of experience in wedding, corporate, and social event planning, Duncan's passion and exceptional skills led him to found F. Duncan Reyes Events By Design, making him a premiere figure in the event industry. Honored by the San Francisco Business Times in 2009 and a recipient of multiple WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards, Duncan is celebrated for his ability to create sophisticated, unique events that reflect his clients' styles, drawing on a vast network of resources to turn dreams into lasting memories. Links We Referenced Duncan on Instagram Duncan’s Website The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

An exclusive behind-the-scenes journey with Violeta, a bride on the brink of her wedding day, and me, her wedding planning guide and fairy godmother. This episode is a treasure trove of voice messages shared between us during the crucial last 72 hours before her big day, topped off with a heartfelt Zoom catch-up post-rehearsal. From forgotten boutonnieres to impromptu speeches, witness the real, unfiltered moments of wedding planning magic and mayhem. Violeta's reflections the day after her wedding offer a raw, emotional insight into the whirlwind of tying the knot. Join us for this intimate glimpse into the highs and lows of the final countdown, and maybe pick up a few tips for your own journey down the aisle. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics Covered / What you will learn Real-life wedding planning crunch time Navigating last-minute details The emotional impact of wedding rehearsals Handling forgotten elements gracefully Post-wedding reflections Insights on giving away wedding items The importance of gratitude in speeches Creative solutions for including distant family members The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join me as I talk with Eli and Matt for a candid conversation about their recent wedding journey. Dive into the heart of their experiences, from the joys and surprises to the moments of reflection that shaped their special day. They share invaluable insights on staying aligned with their true priorities, navigating unexpected situations, and the significant impact of finding guidance and support throughout their planning process. Their story is not just about the planning and the celebration but a reminder of the love and commitment at the core of a wedding. Don't miss this heartfelt retrospective filled with laughter, lessons, and love. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered How personalities and strengths play a role in the distribution of labor  Navigating unexpected moments Prioritizing personal touches Embracing wedding surprises Setting the ceremony tone Creating an inclusive vibe Integrating cultural traditions Including distant family members Exciting and unique micro-events About Our Guests Eli is originally from Beaufort, SC. He now lives in Baltimore, MD with his husband Matt by way of Washington, DC. He has a background in nonprofit fundraising and social impact business development.  Matt is originally from Sandwich, MA. He moved to Baltimore, MD for Teach for America over a decade ago. Originally an 8th grade science teacher, he is now an academic coach for the middle school team at Hampstead Hill Academy. Additionally, he is the Director of the Hampstead Hill Players who perform musicals (this year, they performed Legally Blonde Jr., which premiered two weeks after our wedding). Links The Maryland Theatre Celebrations Catering 28 South SAD Brunch Charm City Trivia Stanlion Clothier Studio Darius Floristry DJ Tezrah Omar Zeta Photography Borden Transportation The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'll guide you through the crucial tasks that define the last steps of your planning journey. As you approach the last three months before your wedding day, discover the essential tasks to bring your vision to life.  From perfecting your Wedding Day Schedule to the intricate details of your Ceremony Layout, circling back with your vendors, and ensuring a smooth rehearsal, this episode guides you through finalizing every element to ensure a celebration that truly reflects you and your partner.  Join me as we wrap up your wedding planning journey, equipping you with the insights and tools needed for these last, vital steps. Whether you're working with a Month Of Coordinator or steering the ship yourself, let's ensure your wedding day unfolds seamlessly. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Overview of the Final Phase of Wedding Planning Perfecting Your Wedding Day Schedule and its significance. Creating a detailed Ceremony Layout. Circling back to vendors for final confirmations and adjustments. Addressing easily forgotten details crucial for the wedding day. The week of planning wrap-up: final checks and confirmations. Conducting a productive rehearsal to ensure everyone knows their roles. The importance of staying organized, clear communication, and using available resources for a seamless wedding day. Encouragement and support for couples in the home stretch of their wedding planning journey. Recommended Episode Links For This Phase of Planning Ep # 392, 'How to Start Wedding Planning: Your First Steps’ Ep #399, 'The Middle Phase of Wedding Planning’ Ep #9 ‘The Wedding Planner’ Ep #322 ‘{Exclusive Audio} The Last Phase of Wedding Planning’ #363 The Wedding Day Schedule - Tips and Tricks Ep#17 ‘Wedding Day Timeline Part 1 of ‘3 Ep #18 ‘Wedding Day Timeline Part 2 of 3’ Ep #20 ‘Wedding Day Timeline Part 3 of 3’ Ep #320 ‘Wedding Day Transportation Help’ Ep #176 ‘The Ceremony Layout’ Ep #345 ‘Ceremony Wisdom from Celebrity Officiant Clint Hufft’ Ep #370 ‘Wedding Day Emergency Kits, Bathroom Baskets and More’ Ep #318 ‘Rehearsals Are Necessary’ The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are celebrating 400 episodes of the pod by pulling questions from a past episode of a YAWA from each year since we started them! This is the 75th episode of YAWA to boot! Hear our answers to listener questions who are planning weddings just like you.  The first YAWA was released on November 8, 2017, so we started there.  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Questions / Topics The frustration with vendors that do not put any pricing on their websites Thoughts and experiences of hosting a wedding on a holiday weekend?  An Instagram profile just for our wedding and our guests, instead of a wedding website We fell in love with a venue but we will have to cut our guest list down. Help! Bride is pregnant and the family is saying they need to wed before she delivers My fiancé’s grandma used to yodel professionally and wants to yodel at our wedding How do you respond when someone implies that your wedding is a waste of money? The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dive into the heart of wedding planning with today’s episode as we explore the pivotal middle phase. From selecting the perfect venues and assembling your dream vendor team to the intricate details of guest accommodations and transportation, I’ve got you covered.  Discover essential tips on crafting your wedding invitations and managing the myriad of 'In Between' tasks to keep your planning journey smooth and enjoyable. Plus, learn the importance of taking breaks and leaning on the TBWPP community for support. Whether you're deep in the planning process or just getting started, this episode is your guide to navigating the complexities of wedding planning with confidence and ease. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 wedding planning mini courses Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Introduction to the Middle Phase of Wedding Planning Choosing Your Venue(s) Hiring Your Vendor Team The importance of referencing your priorities and budget. Hotel room blocks  Organizing Transportation Creating Your Wedding Invitations Your Wedding Website, the Online Hub Managing the Details: The 'In Between' Work Staying on top of administrative tasks and planning details. Scheduling regular planning sessions to maintain momentum. The Importance of Taking Planning Breaks Recommended Episode Links For This Phase of Planning Ep #392 How to Start Wedding Planning: Your First Steps Ep #304 All About Finding Your Venue(s) Ep#324 Finding Unconventional Venues with Peerspace Ep#397 How to Ace Your Venue Site Visit: The Ultimate Guide Ep#297 All About Home Weddings with David Tutera Ep#311 All About Wedding Beauty Prep Ep #288 All About the Cake and Other Desserts Ep #286 Bands: Everything You Need to Know Ep #269 Live Music at Your Wedding Ep #227 The Bar: Everything You Need to Know Ep #368 Vendor Contracts. What You Need to Know Ep #320: Wedding Day Transportation Help Ep #293: All About Print Materials The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

An episode packed with insights to make you feel like a contract guru. Whether you're negotiating with a caterer or deciphering a DJ's terms, you will be equipped with the knowledge to tackle those contracts with confidence. This is an episode for those of you in the Middle Phase of Planning.  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 wedding planning mini courses Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Legal terminology in plain English Why are contracts so long? What does Indemnity mean? Why can vendors keep the deposit / retainer? What’s the difference between a deposit and retainer? Let’s break down Liability Right to use photos / video What does Force Majeure mean?  Cancellation and rescheduling Who signs it if we are not paying?  2 types of Insurance you need for your wedding About Our Guests KUNBI ODUBOGUN, ESQ. (SHE/HER) — CO-FOUNDER AND PARTNER Kunbi Odubogun is a business attorney, speaker, and digital media expert with over 12 years experience in the creative and legal industries.  LEAH WEINBERG, ESQ. (SHE/HER) — CO-FOUNDER AND PARTNER Leah Weinberg is an attorney, a recovering wedding planner, and the author of The Wedding Roller Coaster. Links We Referenced Leah on IG  Kunbi on IG  Oduberg Law on IG https://perfete.com/ https://legallyset.com/ The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're unpacking the essential steps to conducting a successful venue site visit, with the expertise of Dixie Bagley, a renowned wedding venue owner and wedding business consultant. Choosing a venue is a major milestone in wedding planning, the reception gobbles up about half your budget and your venue sets the stage for your big day. Dixie and I will guide you through the entire process, from the initial online research to the in-person visit, ensuring you know exactly when to go, who to bring, and what to ask. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 wedding planning mini courses Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Timing Your Site Visit: Knowing the best moment to sched ule your venue exploration. Navigating the Site Visit: Essential steps to take during your visit. Choosing Your Visit Squad: Deciding who should accompany you. Packing Your Site Visit Kit: What to bring for a productive outing. Open House vs. Private Site Visit: Navigating the differences and benefits. Dealing with Venue Renovations: What to ask and expect if renovations are planned. Virtual Scouting for Destination Venues: Best practices for when you can't visit in person. About The Guest Dixie Bagley is a renowned wedding business entrepreneur, owning The Farm in Rome, Georgia, a picturesque European farm estate nestled in the northwest Georgia mountains. In addition to managing her venue, Dixie also owns The Sweet Bar Bakery, bringing culinary delight to her clients. Beyond her entrepreneurial ventures, she serves as a Business & Personal Consultant for wedding and event professionals, specializing in growth and balance, while also excelling as a wedding planner and engaging speaker in the field of event education. Links We Referenced The Sweet Bar The Farm Rome, GA Dixie Events Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full episodes TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center Monthly Wedding Planning Happy Hours via Zoom with Michelle Bonus Episodes Extra tools and gifts get sprinkled in every so often! The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this YAWA episode, we address specific wedding planning questions and concerns from our listeners as well as throw in a couple of Reddit reactions!  YAWA episodes offer a mix of practical advice, industry insights, and personalized responses, making them a valuable resource for anyone involved in wedding planning. On each YAWA, Michelle is joined by an expert in the wedding industry as her co-host.  Our co-host for this episode is seasoned, Houston-based, wedding planner extraordinaire, the one and only Shaun Gray! Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Questions We Answered Should we invite my step-dad's family to the wedding now that my mom is divorcing him after 20 years of marriage? What are some alternative ideas to the Unity Candle that we can incorporate into our ceremony? Should we have a preset salad at our outdoor tent wedding to minimize guest movement, or would it enhance the guest experience to have the caterer serve salads at the table while keeping dinner buffet-style? How do I dress the dining tables if we are having a buffet-style dinner service? How can we keep guests entertained at our wedding without traditional dances or cake cutting What are some engaging and not overly cheesy virtual activities to introduce my friends to each other before my destination bachelorette, considering they live in different parts of the country and will be meeting for the first time? The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is... Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into Kristen and Michael's unique mountain wedding. We cover everything from tackling altitude challenges and budget constraints to personalizing their big day amidst nature. Listen for insights on venue selection, DIY decor strategies, and the couple's thoughtful approach to honoring a late family member. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered What led them to this venue in a remote location Things to consider when getting married at high altitude How they stuck to their budget All of the DIY projects The challenges of planning a wedding at the same time as launching a business Money saving ideas Honoring a parent that's passed away Accepting what you cannot control Wedding Planning Organizational Tools The Couple: Kristen Brun Sharkey & Michael Sharkey Wedding Date: 9/9/23 # of Guests: 90 Venue: Winters Creek Lodge, NV (North Lake Tahoe) Links Notion Photo Booth Rental - Pixilated Michelle’s Favorite PJ’s from Target Get In Touch: The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Think you know what it takes to plan a wedding? This episode might just change your mind. I'm diving deep into the 10 biggest wedding planning mistakes, based on decades of wedding planning experience and a treasure trove of listener stories.  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools This isn't your typical wedding chatter. It's a no-nonsense, tell-it-like-it-is rundown of the missteps and miscalculations that could throw a wrench in your plans. From budget mishaps to misjudged decisions, this episode covers it all. It's packed with practical advice, eye-opening insights, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from years in the trenches of wedding planning. Whether you're just starting out or already in the thick of it, these insights are indispensable. So, if you're ready for some real talk on wedding planning – the good, the bad, and the ugly – you can’t afford to miss this episode.  Disagree with any of this? I’m all ears! DM me on Instagram or email me. Let’s talk about it.  Love you, love your show! ~Michelle Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m chatting with Amanda Pendleton, a personal finance whiz from Zillow Home Loans, who's here to spill all the insider info for first-time home buyers. We're tackling the big question: "What do we need to know to buy our first home?" This is your one-stop-shop episode, blending love, weddings, and real estate dreams! Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics We Covered Is it better to rent or buy? Steps to take if you want to buy a home in the next year or two All about down payments What you need to do before you start home shopping What comes first? Finding an agent or finding a lender? How to choose a Lender How to find the right home for you First-time home buyer regrets How to manage wedding expenses while saving for your first home About The Guest Amanda Pendleton is a personal finance expert at Zillow Home Loans. Her practical, data-driven advice has been featured on TODAY, CBS Sunday Morning, The New York Times, Real Simple and Glamour. Amanda translates Zillow's housing market data into actionable advice for homeowners, buyers, sellers and renters looking to move on to life's next chapter or maximize their biggest financial investment. She directs research that helps people make more informed decisions about where and how they live - from the color they should paint their bathroom walls to the features that can increase their home's value. Links We Referenced Zillow’s Website Zillow on Instagram Zillow’s Affordability Calculator First Time Home Buyer Resources    Zillow’s Customer Learning Center   Honeyfund Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is designed to equip you with practical, actionable steps to organize and navigate the early stages of wedding planning. The very first steps to set the foundation and ensure you stay on budget and on track.  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Topics  Introduction to Wedding Planning: Understanding the emotional spectrum of planning a wedding. Budget Planning: The importance of an ironclad budget and managing expectations. Prioritizing: Knowing where to start and in what order Design and Vision: How to align your wedding with your unique style and preferences. Guest List Management: Strategies for creating a thoughtful and meaningful guest list. Planning Timeline: The essential guide to organizing and pacing your planning process. Resources and Support: Utilizing available tools, resources, and community support throughout your planning. Links We Referenced Ep #375 Wedding Planning 101: From Start To Finish Free Wedding Priorities Exercise The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this final YAWA of 2023, where we're diving into a fabulous mash-up of 2022's highlights! Yes, I know that 2024 is just around the corner, but let's hit pause and revel in the best moments of last year. It's a quirky throwback, but trust me, these gems are timeless and totally worth the rewind. Happy New Year!!  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Questions We Answered We’re considering asking a friend to be our Officiant. How do we go about asking and should we pay for their certification/license? (YAWA April 2022) My fiancé doesn’t want a wedding and would rather elope. He won’t participate in planning… (YAWA Aug 2022) We are required to have limited liability insurance, should we get additional insurance in case anything happens? (YAWA March 2022) Dealing with my mom and the anxiety that comes from her criticism (YAWA October 2022) A friend got upset when I got engaged. She didn’t congratulate me, and it has been very difficult. Can I not invite her to my wedding? (YAWA May 2022) The DJ thinks dancing for 3 hours is too long! (YAWA December 2022) Best way to help my anxiety on my wedding weekend? (YAWA Jan 2022) Thank you to my co-hosts that contributed Dixie Bagley Kelly McWilliams Mark Allan Groleau Megan Gillikin  Darryl Moore Justine Carino Kathryn Kalabokes Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is more than just about planning the perfect wedding. It's a call to embrace self-love, to believe in yourself, and to manifest a life filled with joy and fulfillment. Our guest, Theresa Cheung’s insights remind us that while planning for the big day, it's essential to nurture the most important relationship you'll ever have – the one with yourself. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Remember, lovebirds, your wedding is not just a day. It's the beginning of a beautiful journey. So, let's plan it with love, care, and a touch of magic! What You Will Learn Understanding Manifesting - Theresa breaks down common misconceptions about manifesting, highlighting it as a journey of self-care and self-love. Manifesting and Wedding Planning - How the principles of manifesting can be applied to wedding planning and why focusing on positive outcomes matters. Self-Belief and Intuition - Exploring the relationship between self-belief and intuition, and their impact on making decisions. Practical Tips and Techniques - Theresa provides practical tips for manifesting, including dream work and creating positive rituals. Dealing with Negativity - Understanding how to handle negative thoughts and use them as a tool for self-improvement. The Role of Self-Love in Relationships - Discussing the importance of self-love and its impact on relationships and wedding planning. About Our Guest Best-selling author Theresa Cheung has been researching and writing about spirituality, astrology, dreams, the afterlife, and the paranormal for the past 25 years. She has a Master's degree from King's College Cambridge University in Theology and English, and several international best-selling books. Links We Referenced #325 Decoding Your Dreams: Weddings and Otherwise timemachine.love Theresa’s Website: https://www.theresacheung.com/ Theresa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetheresacheung/ Theresa’s Book to interpret dreams: The Dream Dictionary A to Z Theresa’s book: Empower Your Inner Psychic Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Redefining the "Bridezilla": A Conversation on Empowerment and Authenticity in Wedding Planning In this episode, we engage in a thought-provoking discussion with Hillary Odell of Hilandel, focusing on debunking the 'bridezilla' stereotype and highlighting the importance of authenticity and empowerment in wedding planning. This episode goes beyond just challenging a term; it's an exploration of societal pressures and expectations, and a call to embrace one's true self in the journey of marriage preparation. Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full episodes TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center Monthly Wedding Planning Happy Hours via Zoom with Michelle Bonus Episodes Extra tools and gifts get sprinkled in every so often! Topics We Covered The origins and impact of the "bridezilla" stereotype The societal pressures on women and non-binary individuals during wedding planning The role of authenticity and empowerment in choosing bridal attire Challenging unfair labels and stereotypes in the wedding industry The importance of speaking up and expressing personal preferences The intimate and personal nature of creating custom bridal wear Empowering individuals to make decisions that reflect their true selves Hillary's approach to client relationships and the design process Redefining traditional wedding norms and expectations About The Guest Hillary O’Dell is the founder and designer for Hilandel, a design label based in New York City, specializing in custom bridal as well as offering a collection of limited-edition ready to wear pieces. With a focus on feminism, sustainable fashion and body neutrality, Hilandel designs are made to feel authentically you from the very beginning. Each bride becomes the muse for her own dress; as it should be.  Links We Referenced Hilandel Website Hilandel on Instagram Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This united and strong couple, reflect on their wedding journey, highlighting the significance of their union in the context of same-sex and interracial marriage only being legal in the U.S. since 2015 and 1967, respectively.  Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness:       Ad-free, full length episodes      The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with  Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class  Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Emphasizing their commitment to what was important to them, they share how they navigated the complexities of family dynamics while maintaining clear boundaries. Their positive outlook and resilience shone through as they tackled wedding day snags with professionalism and grace. Melissa speaks passionately about how their queer love is both radical and revolutionary, underlining the historic and personal importance of their marriage. Topics We Covered Strategies for Curating the Guest List The Role of Community Commitment in Shaping Their Wedding Crafting Personalized Wedding Vows Avoiding the Pitfall of Over-Focusing on Minor Details Managing Family Pressure for Unwanted Wedding Elements Maintaining Focus Throughout the Wedding Planning Process Key Components to Incorporate into a Ceremony Script Handling Technical Issues During the Event About Our Guests Karissa Sullivan is an Assistant Principal at Ramapo High School with two Masters degrees and currently pursuing her doctorate in educational leadership from Columbia University. She's been in the education field since her early career, starting as a teacher before earning her advanced degrees. When she's not shaping young minds, Karissa's all about family life. She's a loving sister, daughter, and aunt, and together with her wife, they're working on growing their family, which includes their two furry companions, right in the heart of Nyack, NY and a ton of plants. She's actively involved in her community, serving on the BIPOC Advisory Board for the Phyllis B. Frank Rockland County Pride Center, and is also a charter member and Treasurer of the Black School Educators of Rockland County. Karissa's dedication extends to her role as the inaugural Grand Marshal of the 2023 Rockland County Pride Parade, making her a true advocate and leader in her community. Links We Referenced Ceremony Script: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1pJxFCq3Tqe2PSraGjdv69oZs_YOAX-DQHq1k73GWFpo/edit?usp=sharing Wedding Coordination and Florals: @luxuryeventcollective  Photography/videography/Photo Booth/lighting: @stateoftheartvisuals and @societyofthearts  DJ: @djcoolee Hair and Makeup: @thekeylookllc @humblehands314  Wedding Cake: @bakerman1727  Rehearsal Dinner Event Space and Bartending: @xhousenyack  Rehearsal Dinner catering: @cravinjamaicancuisine      Wedding Officiant: Reverend Tabatha Holley @revfemmeblaqity  Dog day care: @papawsdoghouse Wedding Dress: @bridesbyyoung  Wedding Suit: @bindleandkeep NY Times Article: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/11/style/melissa-dandrea-karissa-sullivan-we Get In Touch:  The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez  Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics  On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This month's YAWA is brimming with energy as we tackle an array of real wedding planning challenges. Along with my co-host Dixie Bagley, we offer practical advice, creative problem-solving, and a touch of humor with lots of fun! Just as wedding planning should be. ;) Click HERE to become a premium subscriber and unlock all of the amazingness: Ad-free, full length episodes The TBWPP Wedding Planning Resource Center with Access to 6 mini courses of The Big Wedding Planning Master Class Wedding Planning Templates and Tools Imagine figuring out how to keep guests warm at a winter wedding when you discover your venue has no heat, or debating if you should arrive at a wedding shower empty-handed after sending the gift directly to the couple's home. We also shed light on some of the more nuanced aspects of wedding planning, such as the appropriate timeline for photographers to deliver your photos and the modern-day etiquette of using social media for professional communication. Questions We Answered Just found out our venue has no heat for my winter wedding What to look at and ask at venue site visits Do I show up empty handed to a wedding shower if I purchased the gift off the registry and it was delivered to the couple’s house? Our wedding was 15 weeks ago and photographer still has not sent our photos Is it strange my photographer is communicating to clients through social media? Inviting Out of town guests to our “low key welcome party” but they will have to pay their own tab How do I orchestrate the “Who Has Been Married The Longest” dance/game? About Our Co-host Dixie Bagley is a renowned wedding business entrepreneur, owning The Farm in Rome, Georgia, a picturesque European farm estate nestled in the northwest Georgia mountains. In addition to managing her venue, Dixie also owns The Sweet Bar Bakery, bringing culinary delight to her clients. Beyond her entrepreneurial ventures, she serves as a Business & Personal Consultant for wedding and event professionals, specializing in growth and balance, while also excelling as a wedding planner and engaging speaker in the field of event education. Links The Sweet Bar The Farm Rome, GA Dixie Events Get In Touch: The Big Wedding Planning Podcast is… Hosted and produced by Michelle Martinez Music by Steph Altman of Mophonics On Instagram @thebigweddingplanningpodcast and be sure to use #planthatwedding when posting, so you can get our attention! Easy to get in touch with. Email us at hello@thebigweddingplanningpodcast.com or Call and leave a message at 415-723-1625 and you might hear your voice on an episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices